Angry Lingam, Angry Yoni

 

There is so much anger in our world.

There is so much anger in our hearts.

There is so much anger in our bodies.

There is so much anger in our sex.

 

There is so much anger from not being who we are, authentic and free, to celebrate our bodies and our pleasure.

There is so much anger at the judgments heaped upon us for expressing the fullness of our sexuality.

There is so much anger at the fear we feel about revealing our true pleasure beings.

 

There is so much anger in our Lingams.

They’ve become weapons rather than instruments of pleasure.

They’ve become about conquering and the wielding of power.

They’ve become angry at the need to perform, at the ridiculous comparison with another, at the fear of failure, at the disconnect between him and our hearts.

They’ve become driven by ego.

They’ve lost deep sensation, connection, the melting of flesh to flesh.

 

There is so much anger in our Yonis.

They’ve become painful and contracted.

They’ve become instruments of withhold rather than welcoming.

They’ve become cold.

They’ve become angry at the need to perform, at the ridiculous comparison with another, at the disconnect between her and our hearts.

They’ve lost deep sensation, the melting of flesh to flesh.

 

Our sex has become angry.

It’s become disconnected from our hearts, our spirits.

It’s become dirty and shameful.

It’s become a commodity, a transaction.

It’s become pressured and forced.

It’s become an expression of domination rather than an expression of the power within us.

It’s become something we fear and cage as we separate ourselves from its beauty and mystery.

 

Return, men and women.

Return to yourselves.

Return to the sacred fire of sex.

Return to the celebration of pleasure in all its myriad dances.

Return to your hearts.

 

Forgive yourselves.

Forgive your bodies, forgive your hearts.

Free yourselves to sing the song of your pleasure.

Free yourselves to be explorers and adventurers.

Free yourselves to become, in the fullness of the word, Lovers.