A Sensual and Erotic Life
At my workshop last week, Awakening the Erotic Spirit, there was a beautiful discussion about the word ‘Erotic’…
How To Be a Better Lover
Do you want to be a better lover?
The Power of Touch
Have you been touched with love, where you can feel your lover’s heart in their hands…
The Heart of The Healer
The past months have taken me deeper into myself than ever…
Sexual Healing, Life Healing
When we begin a journey of sexual healing we begin a journey of life healing, body healing, heart healing, spirit healing…
Softly, Slowly, Deeply…
The world of male sexuality is fraught with myth, misinformation and misunderstanding…
Heart-Centered Sexuality
For a while I’ve been moving more into a heart space in my work and life…
Beautiful Massage
It’s long been my desire to create the most beautiful massage, touch experiences and workshops…
The Practice of Relationship
So many relationships end because of a lack of intimacy…
The Sexual Fire
There’s an analogy that I use which I call the Sexual Fire…
Let The Point of Contact be The Point of Consciousness
Contact. We touch…
Healing With Pleasure
We generally seek, look for and go for healing when we’re in pain…
Sexual Communication
Sexual and Sensual Communication is very difficult for many people…
Holding Space
Who will hold space for your fire…
I See You
There is an important element in relationships, in love, of being seen…
This Man…
I sat in the radio studio last week talking to a man who has come out as bisexual…
The Way You Make Me Feel
There are many fascinating things to learn in touching…
The Touch Connection
Many couples come to see me in my practice complaining that they’re not having enough sex…
A Question of Experience
As a healer and facilitator I’m always looking to grow and expand…
Loving Men
I had a moment recently of intense sadness that brought me to tears…
A Beautiful Stranger
On your journey to sexual authenticity you will meet a stranger, beautiful, at times terrifying, exhilarating…
Low Libido?
Over the past year I’ve worked more than ever with women who have been diagnosed as having low libido…
Sacred Sex
We have taken what is sacred and made it dirty…
A Night of Presence
Imagine a night of presence…
Connection
Connection. That’s what so many of us are looking for…
Pleasure Choices
Have you ever had a sexual experience that was an absolute choice…
Collapse Your Expectations
There is an incredible transformational power in sexuality…
Make Your Lover Important
Make your lover important…
The Beautiful Paradox of Being Human
There is an incredible and beautiful paradox of being human, of this life’s journey and all it brings us…
The Shimmer of Pleasure
I first saw this years ago, purely as something physical…
Exploring Your Sexuality
To explore your sexuality you have to explore energy…
The Mystical Power of Slow Touch
There is a mystical secret that masters of touch know…
The Yoni Ocean of Pleasure
The Yoni Ocean is a place of endless pleasure…
Release into Pleasure
The more open and relaxed your body is, the greater pleasure you’ll experience…
The Sexual Energy of Contemplation
Our sexual energy can be used in so many ways…
Places of Intimacy
I seek the places of intimacy…
Those F***-It Days
You know those days, they don’t happen very often, when you say Fuck It!
Angry Lingam, Angry Yoni
There is so much anger in our world…
Enter Through the Heart
Everything changes when the heart becomes the entry point to pleasure…
The Tears of Orgasm
I’d like to share three stories with you…
The Orgasmic Field
One of the reasons we seek orgasms is that just for a moment, brief as it may be, it totally takes us out of ourselves…
The Many Petals of Yoni Massage
There are many expressions of Yoni Massage, many petals of this most beautiful art of pleasure…
Taking Care
Every Water Flow Massage Experience has a theme, an energy…
