Permission for Pleasure
There’s something I talk about a lot, it comes up a lot in the healing journeys I share with people, on talks and workshops, and it comes up a lot in interviews.
In essence it’s that we get no, or very little education for pleasure. The extension of this is education for relationships and for love.
There’s something I hear a lot, especially from young people whose relationships are floating along, sometimes happily, sometimes peacefully, sometimes unaware of the fact that just below the surface of the water deep and dangerous currents lurk, rocks and all sorts of obstacles are there. What they say, and not so young people as well, ‘I thought love was enough’.
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At a talk I gave last week on Conscious Sexuality someone asked a great question about sex in a relationship, how do you make it more conscious, what do you do?
Earlier this week a man sent an email to me saying that his wife doesn’t have much confidence in his sexual skills and is bored in bed.
Over the years, almost 20 years, in the field of Conscious Sexuality I have had so many similar questions from people, from all orientations.
My Eroticism Went With Her
She left.
And my eroticism went with her.
It loved her.
It loved the expression, all the ways it could express itself, the gentle, the tender, the fire and the beast.
It loved the passion.
It loved the freedom, that there was no place it could not go, nothing it could not talk about or share, it was welcome, all of it. And it revelled in that.
