#eroticism Tag

A Tender Moment

I've had a lot of conversations with people in the past weeks. People in relationships and single people. Mostly people who are dealing with issues and problems, some struggling deeply, some hurting, and some people...

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Exploring Sexual Healing

There is much of our world that has taken what is sacred and made it dirty. There is much of our world that has taken what is light and made it dark. There is much of our...

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Exploring Healing

Many people come to a sexual journey looking for healing. There's a problem, an issue, a blockage,a pain, a hurt. That's where so many journeys begin. A lot of my work happens in this space,...

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We Need Touch

We need to touch, and we need to be touched. We need to hold, and we need to be held. We need to pleasure, and we need to be pleasured. These are needs. Not wants...

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The Love of Desire

I've shared with you that over the past year I haven't had a sexual encounter with another. For someone who has had a rich and full erotic life this has been really interesting. For someone...

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In Service to The Heart Touch

I have been doing and teaching massage and touch for almost 30 years. The past 20 plus years in the field of Conscious Sexuality, Kashmiri Pleasure Massage, Yoni Massage, Taoist Massage, Lingam Massage, Energy Massage,...

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The Conscious Cock

The Conscious C**k is an expression of the heart. It is a c**k of service, of worship. He has gone through and beyond performance. He has gone through and beyond need. He has gone...

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Devotion

More than a year ago my lover said to me that she thought devotion might be more important than love. We're not together anymore, and that line has stayed in my head. I've come back to it...

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Friction Sex, Energy Sex

Most people have what we call friction sex. It's friction, simply. One body part rubbing against another. It creates friction. (And as I write that something I've never quite seen before comes to me, I'll...

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A Soft Cock Conversation

So much of the power of a cock is in its hardness, in its heat. In its ability to penetrate, to open, to spread. So much of its power, and so much of its pleasure....

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My Nurtured Cock

There is a practice that I teach in workshops and on healing journeys. It's a practice of creating a conscious relationship with your genitals. The relationship most of us have with our genitals is, at...

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Exploring The Erotic Spirit

I was preparing for the webinar I have coming up on Thurs, Exploring the Erotic Spirit, with a smile inside. It’s based on a workshop I teach called Awakening the Erotic Spirit. For a while I’ve...

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The Dance of Yoni Massage

Look into her eyes. Breathe. Just breathe. There are no thoughts in this moment. There is the opening to love. Breathe into your heart. Just breathe. ...

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The Massage of Making Love

Can you touch this body as if you were making love? Not making love as most of our world sees it. Making Love. Your hands expressing your heart. Taking care. Each movement gentle, slow, deep....

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A Crazy Little Thing Called Love

Nobody prepares us for love. And maybe nobody can. But we can go beyond the illusion. Beyond what Hollywood and the media portrays love to be. Beyond the myths we're fed about love. Because love is messy. It creates upheaval....

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The Silent Suffering

For so many people sex is the place of silent suffering. For so many men there is still such a stigma, such embarrassment, such shame about having a sexual problem. For most men this is...

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Taoist Sexual Rhythm

One of the deepest practices that I offer and teach is Taoist Sexual Energy Massage. It's a full-body massage that works with the body’s meridian system, bringing healing to the entire being every time you...

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Words on My Lover’s Body

If you wrote a poem on your lover’s body, what would it say? Even your imaginary lover, the lover that you would like to have, the lover you dream about. Where on their body would you write...

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