The Mystery of Yoni Gazing

I love women, I worship Yoni.

There is something I have learned about mystery.
There’s an inner knowing, an understanding that goes beyond words.
It’s nameless.
It has no limits.
There is an intimacy with mystery, with the mystery that draws you, and it’s different for each of us.
And when it draws you, when it reaches into you, into your body, into your heart, into your very soul, when it sings a song that something indefinable inside of you knows, you listen.

In Yoni I see beauty beyond words.

Yoni Holding For Healing

I’ve been working in the field of sexual healing for almost 20 years, most of the people I work with are women.
For so many women the tissues of the yoni hold tension, emotional blockages, patterns and hurt.
This manifests in so many ways from not being able to have orgasms, to painful sex, to having a low sexual energy, to disconnect from their sexuality, their bodies, their genitals and more.

Expanded Orgasm Workshop

‘ve always said that this was ‘an important workshop’, and I was thinking earlier about what that really means.

What makes it important is that it expands, haha, the perception we have on pleasure.

Permission for Pleasure

There’s something I talk about a lot, it comes up a lot in the healing journeys I share with people, on talks and workshops, and it comes up a lot in interviews.
In essence it’s that we get no, or very little education for pleasure. The extension of this is education for relationships and for love.
There’s something I hear a lot, especially from young people whose relationships are floating along, sometimes happily, sometimes peacefully, sometimes unaware of the fact that just below the surface of the water deep and dangerous currents lurk, rocks and all sorts of obstacles are there. What they say, and not so young people as well, ‘I thought love was enough’.

Learn About…

At a talk I gave last week on Conscious Sexuality someone asked a great question about sex in a relationship, how do you make it more conscious, what do you do?

Earlier this week a man sent an email to me saying that his wife doesn’t have much confidence in his sexual skills and is bored in bed.

Over the years, almost 20 years, in the field of Conscious Sexuality I have had so many similar questions from people, from all orientations.

Just Because it has the Word Yoni, Doesn’t Make it Tantric

Just because it has the word Yoni, does not make it Tantric, Neo-Tantric, Sacred or Conscious.
Just because it has the word Lingam, does not make it Tantric, Neo-Tantric, Sacred or Conscious.

The questions to ask are about the intention of the massage, where inside of me does it come from?
Does it come from my heart?