#femalesexuality Tag

Cold Coffee and the Facts

Last week I had coffee with my social media coach, Bronwynne. (By the way, she is fantastic, if you're looking for help with social media, I'll happily connect you.) I showed her what I'd written...

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Expanded Energy Orgasm

There is such power, such possibility in being relaxed, deeply relaxed, in pleasure. The body opens, energy begins to flow. From our sexual centre to the heart, and higher, spreading through the body. A wave...

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A Conscious Mouth

This idea arose from a place of deep pleasure, from a place of intimacy with my body, from a place of conscious connection and awareness with my body. For so many of us the relationship we...

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An Embrace

There is one thing we all need at the moment. Need. All of us, wherever we are on the rainbow of life, in every way there can be. Need. One of the effects of the...

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Being A Good Lover Is…

There is a really interesting aspect of being a good lover that we don't always connect with sex. Almost everyone who shares a healing and growth with me at some point says that they're amazed...

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Sexual Healing, Heart Healing

There is something that I have intrinsically known that has come to conscious awareness. So many of our sexual issues are heart issues. We heal them in the heart. Yes they're in our bodies, in...

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The Curiosity of Love and Pleasure

There's something I teach which is so important when it comes to pleasure, to sexuality, to sensuality, to growth. It's also such an important element in relationships. There's a progression, a journey that starts with...

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Breast and Heart Massage Webinar

Breast and Heart Massage is the space where healing, relaxation, release, nurturing, intimacy and arousal meet. Breasts are symbolic of nurturing, nourishing, this massage, brings that inwards, awakening the energy of nurturing herself, and allowing herself...

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Breast and Heart Massage

Breast and Heart Massage is the space where healing, relaxation, acknowledgement, sensuality, arousal, love and nurturing meet. It's often an experience of deep emotion, bringing so much to awareness. For many women breasts are symbolic...

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Tears of Beauty

I am in an incredible position, because of the work I do. I get to spend emotional time with men, vulnerable time with men. And one of the most beautiful, one of the most powerful,...

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Clitintimacy

The other day I was doing a clitoral massage. This was in the space of healing, of pleasure, of energy, of sensation. In the moment something came to awareness in an emotional rush, deeper than...

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Healing Through Pleasure

When we work with expansion we become open to different ways of doing this, different perspectives. We come to see the patterns that we've lived with, that keep us doing what we do, and we...

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Healing The (Sexual) Body

The cornerstone of my healing work is patterns. The patterns are in the body as well as in the mind. And we can only change the body patterns in the body. Thoughts, ideas, perspectives, are...

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Find Stillness

For most men sex is about doing. Especially in the body. Your body moves, especially your hips. Moving, thrusting, rocking… Find stillness. ...

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The Intimacy of Healing

I love to teach. I love to learn, and I love to share what I learn, to understand it, to see where it fits, what it connects to. I've been listening to some great teachers...

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Yoni Massage As Worship

Greet your lover as an expression of The Goddess. Greet her with reverence, with humility. Approach her as you would the Divine in a place of prayer. Kneel before her. Be open to serve her,...

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Women’s Pleasure – A Free Webinar

Women’s Pleasure – A Free Webinar Thurs 6th August, 8 pm, CAT. An open form, q&a, discussion, on aspects of female sexuality and women’s pleasure. So for I have received questions on cervical orgasms, female ejaculation and strap-ons. Please...

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Women’s Day, Women’s Pleasure

Most of my work is with women, and for those who don't know me, I'm a Conscious Sexuality Practitioner. I'm based in South Africa, and I work with women, and men and couples, around the...

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Slow Subtle Super Sex

Yesterday's coffee was a cortado. The easiest way to explain a cortado is an intense cappuccino. And delicious cakes, and even more delicious friends. And what, you may ask, has that do with Slow Subtle Super...

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Friday Afternoon Coffee

Friday afternoon coffee in the delicious sun, and I'm thinking about the week. It's been a roller-coaster. Waking up a few mornings with an incredible bleakness. The image was of a vast concrete plain, grey sky, cold,...

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Conscious Sensual Massage

I love women. Most of my work is with women. And I must say that I love working with men, and I get so excited, I celebrate when men come to heal, to learn, to...

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Looking for Intimacy

I have had some incredibly painful, sad and deep conversations over the past few weeks. These have been with men and women, single people and couples. So much of it comes to this. We're looking...

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The Dance of Yoni Massage

Look into her eyes. Breathe. Just breathe. There are no thoughts in this moment. There is the opening to love. Breathe into your heart. Just breathe. ...

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The Massage of Making Love

Can you touch this body as if you were making love? Not making love as most of our world sees it. Making Love. Your hands expressing your heart. Taking care. Each movement gentle, slow, deep....

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This Conscious Kiss

For so many of us kissing is a prelude, something we do that leads to something else. And for some people it’s something they have to do to get to the next step. Conscious Kissing is...

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Conscious Receiving

There's an element of touch that I don't think we're always aware of because we focus so much on the giving of touch. Receiving touch. Consciously Receiving your lover's touch. ...

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Sensual Bondage Massage

It's a touch experience that takes you deep into your body, into your energy, using a range of sensations. It's a place where sensation and emotion come together. It's an exploration of the possibilities of...

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The Best Time

When we're present, when we're in this moment, when we're connected to ourselves, when we're open, when we're in a space of intimacy, with ourselves, more than anything else, this moment is the best there...

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Sensual Curiosity

Curiosity is one of the most important elements of vitality. It helps keep us interested and interesting. In a relationship it's one of the qualities that contribute to fulfillment. ...

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Slow Union

There’s a practice I teach called Slow Union. Over time this practice reveals almost endless gifts to us as it releases that which prevents us going deep into pleasure and the myriad, mystical, magical gifts we...

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The Endless Touch

One of the most beautiful things about learning Sensual Massage, Heart Massage, Healing Massage, is the endless journey of discovery it offers. ...

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In The Giving

It's often been said that the receiving is in the giving. This is showing to be so true in the learning of Healing Massage. I was thinking about my journey, working in the field of...

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