gratitude Tag

Naked Freedom

Naked Freedom, Naked Sex. Naked sex? Isn't all sex naked? Most of the time, sometimes it's partially clothed, sometimes it's in a costume, sometimes it's just pulling something down, pulling something aside. And there's more. Naked...

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The Power of a Woman

I've been teaching, exploring and experiencing in the wonderful and limitless worlds of sensuality and sexuality for over 25 years. In this time there is something I've seen so often, and at the moment more...

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The Erotic Space of Possibility

I'd like to share an experience I had recently with a woman on a journey of healing and growth. We've been working together for a while and we've gone deep. It's time that makes the...

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An Introduction

It's time for a re-introduction. Because… The past month has been a time of integration of a lot of learning, experiencing, exploring, contemplating. Going within, and from there being able to share more with you....

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The Path of Sensual Surrender

After doing and teaching, and receiving (not nearly enough), massage, so many different expressions, for over 25 years, I've seen how the body, the touch is a beautiful path to surrender. On many paths we...

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Performers or Lovers

For years I have been helping men with performance issues, premature ejaculation and erection problems. Something landed for me recently with this work, and the clue was in the question, or the problem. Performance. That's...

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G-Spot Holding for Pleasure

There's something interesting about touch and pleasure touch, sexual touch. We think that we need to move, and move all the time. And for many of us the pattern of movement is hard and fast,...

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4 Elements of Touch

I want to touch you like the water With the safety of the womb With the rivers endless flow With the oceans tides As I stroke to your centre And gently away With the gathering wave Crashing its love on the shores...

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The Intimacy of Healing

In my work, both face-to-face, and online, in one-on-one sessions and in workshops, I get to share many intimate moments with you. These are moments of awareness, moments of understanding, moments of release and letting...

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How Many Tears Are Enough

I held a man on his tears at the Water Flow Massage on Fri night, as I've held so many men and women over the years as they've cried, as I've been held in my...

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Love Waits

I am back in Johannesburg after an intense week of teaching in Cape Town. The learning, the sharing, the intimacy, the healing, the connecting on all the workshops, all the sessions, all the conversations was...

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Lingam Coffee

Sunday morning at the Airport in Cape Town, going back to Jo'burg. I'm carrying the container with my new Yoni and Lingam, get to the security check. It goes through the scanner and they stop...

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Sexual Energy

'Was walking around in a bit of a daze afterwards. It was amazing! I just relaxed and breathed gently through a kaleidoscope of colour. These beautiful sensations like tiny pulses moved up my body. Followed...

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Coffee and Duct Tape

What in the world have coffee and duct tape got to do with each other? My daughter asked me a question last night. She phrased it more or less like this, 'I don't know if...

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I Found Something

I found something recently, and there might be something for you in what I've found. I have always loved what I do. When people talk about having a job I've never really thought of this...

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This Divine Body

From the ends of your toes to the tips of your fingers to the top of your head. Your Divine Body. There is a lifetime in your body, a lifetime of sensation, a lifetime of...

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One Manly Tear

I was watching an episode of Masterchef last week, the UK series. There was a man who had come pretty far in the competition and at one point, having got through to the next round,...

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Mouth Massage

Our mouths are incredibly intimate, and they hold a key to some deep releasing, healing, intimacy, expansion and pleasure. Over the past months I've been doing some work with the mouth and throat that has...

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Deepening Into Love

For the past, it's nearly two years now, I haven't had a sexual partner, I haven't had a lover, I haven't had a relationship. Not in the traditional sense. This has been a time of...

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This Conscious Kiss

Kissing is one of the most intimate acts we can share with a partner, in fact there are times when kissing is more intimate than sex. Kissing brings us closer together than anything. Because kissing...

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Sacred Yoni Massage

The sacred in me arises when I sit before you, when I look into your eyes. The sacred in me arises when I kneel before you. The sacred in me arises when I sit between your...

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My Orgasmic Gratitude

The energy of gratitude has such power. It brings us into awareness, into presence. It’s an element of intimacy. It connects us to ourselves, to another, to life, to the world. Gratitude heals. There is a sense of wonder in...

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Slowly, Deeply…

So many of us are looking for more pleasure, deeper connection and intimacy as well as a greater experience of sexual energy...

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Orgasmic Gratitude

My learning of life, of consciousness, has brought me to see that everything is connected, and that everything has a purpose...

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Honouring Love

My learning of life, of consciousness, has brought me to see that everything is connected, and that everything has a purpose...

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Meaningful Sex

Over the years of working in the field of Conscious Sexuality I’ve heard many people say that they want sex to be meaningful...

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My Tantric Quest

With Jonti I’ve learnt so many small, subtle ways of being with myself and getting comfortable with my sexuality...

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