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The Making of an Erotic Massage Therapist Pt 11
October 7, 2019
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A while ago I was sitting with some colleagues, facilitators in different fields. One of them said to me 'I wish I was brave enough to attend one of your workshops.' I was really surprised...
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The Making of an Erotic Massage Therapist Pt 10
October 2, 2019
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There's a fascinating thing about expectation in the erotic context. This extends beyond massage into all sensual, sexual and erotic experiences. ...
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The Making of an Erotic Massage Therapist Pt 9
September 29, 2019
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Let's talk about bodies. ...
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The Making of an Erotic Massage Therapist Pt 8
September 25, 2019
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There’s something interesting that happens from time to time, with women more than men. A woman will come and talk about healing because her body isn’t very sensitive, she doesn’t get very aroused from being touched...
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The Making of an Erotic Massage Therapist Pt 7
September 22, 2019
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One of the most beautiful waves at the moment is the amount of women over 50 who are exploring, healing and growing in their sensuality and sexuality. ...
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The Making of an Erotic Massage Therapist Pt 6
September 18, 2019
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The very first Taoist Sexual Energy Massage I did with a man was an interesting initiation. He had both nipples pierced, three genital piercings and various other piercings. I was young, sexually, and body inexperienced....
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The Making of an Erotic massage Therapist Pt 5 – The Bliss Body
September 16, 2019
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We have a pain body, and most of us know that well, we live from it. We also have a Bliss Body. We have a shadow, when we do growth work, healing work, we come...
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Awakening The Beast – On The Path of Sexual Authenticity
September 13, 2019
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A few weeks ago I wrote a piece called Exploring The Fire. Since then I've had conversations with and Sat with people in my office who have all said something similar, and most of them...
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The Making of an Erotic Massage Therapist Pt 4
September 12, 2019
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When you do this work from the heart, when you touch from the heart, it's intimate. Not only bodily intimate. And the intimacy is what makes so much possible. It opens the heart more and...
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The Making of an Erotic Massage Therapist Pt 2
September 8, 2019
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When you know a little about energy, a little about sexual energy, a little about the body, a little about arousal, you can turn someone on really easily. You can take them to orgasm easily....
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A Crazy Little Thing Called Love
September 6, 2019
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Nobody prepares us for love. And maybe nobody can. But we can go beyond the illusion. Beyond what Hollywood and the media portrays love to be. Beyond the myths we're fed about love. Because love is messy. It creates upheaval....
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The Silent Suffering
September 5, 2019
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For so many people sex is the place of silent suffering. For so many men there is still such a stigma, such embarrassment, such shame about having a sexual problem. For most men this is...
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The Making of an Erotic Massage Therapist Pt 1
September 2, 2019
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I'd like to share some of my journey with you, what brought me to this point as an erotic massage therapist and teacher. I've been doing this for over 20 years and it's a journey...
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Sensual, Erotic, Tantric Poetry
August 30, 2019
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You open your body and you take me into you. You open more and take me deeper and even deeper into you. Space within your Yoni seems to be without end, boundless, as you give yourself to...
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Yoni Healing Massage Pt 2
August 29, 2019
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I begin with guiding her through 3 breaths, each one deeper and slower. One hand in her heart, the other on her yoni. Connecting. Slowing down. Breathing. Then 5 points on the pubic bone. ...
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Yoni Healing Massage
August 26, 2019
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Yoni Healing Massage and Yoni Pleasure Massage are not always the same. Pleasure massage, with a heart touch, and an intention of Honouring, of giving, of connection, will always have a healing element. Healing Massage is...
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If I Were To…
August 22, 2019
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If I were to write something today about sex and energy I would write that sex changes when it becomes an energy experience more than a physical one. That the physical, our bodies, our beautiful...
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My Massage Journey
August 18, 2019
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My journey in healing began with massage and I have reconnected with this in such a beautiful and deep way. Bodywork, touchwork, have always been a big part of what I do, from the understanding...
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The State Of Orgasmic Potential
August 15, 2019
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The body is a field of possibility. By being more in the body we can access that field. Orgasmic energy is a field of possibility. Be being more in that field we can be more in...
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Pelvic Tension, Sexual Tension, Life Tension
August 12, 2019
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We all carry an enormous amount of tension in our bodies and in different aspects of our being. This tension is one of the greatest blocks to us experiencing deep levels of sensual and sexual...
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Yoni/Lingam Holding Healing
August 8, 2019
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Before the movement there is holding. Before the stroke there is stillness. Before the caress there is quiet. One of the most beautiful and powerful 'strokes' of massage is not moving at all. It's holding....
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Sacred Erotic Massage
August 4, 2019
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There is a world of experience where the erotic is an expression of the sacred. There is a touch that comes from somewhere beyond the body, from somewhere else in my being. There is a...
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A New Massage
August 1, 2019
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It's always been my intention, in the 30 years, I've been doing and teaching massage, touch and bodywork, to create beautiful experiences. In this, the exploration has been endless, and I've often said that the...
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Learning About The Fire
July 28, 2019
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There are so many myths about sex. There are so many myths about sexuality. There are so many myths about desire. There are so many myths about what women want. There are so many myths about what men...
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The Slow Magic
July 25, 2019
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There is magic in slow. There is such power in slow. Slow brings us into presence. All else drifts away naturally when we are present. There is no struggle in slow, there is surrender, to...
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A Self-Pleasuring Energy Experience
July 22, 2019
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This is a self-pleasuring experience that will allow you to experience your sexual energy. When we can build that energy, that beautiful, powerful, vital sexual energy, when we can build it and then keep it...
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What Has Become Of Us?
July 18, 2019
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There is something that I've been hearing so much lately in my work. 'I can't tell him that, it's going to hurt his ego.' Is this what we've become, us men. ...
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A Ritual of Offering
July 15, 2019
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There is such power in ritual in a relationship. It's an experience of consciousness, of presence. In this space we come together with an intention. We come into intimacy, we come into our hearts, we come...
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Beyond Pleasure
July 11, 2019
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There's a fascinating idea in Conscious Sexuality that allows us to look at sexuality differently, and opens up a world of possibility. It's about going beyond pleasure. ...
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The Meditation Of Touch
July 8, 2019
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There is a touch that is slow, so slow. There is a touch that is gentle, so gentle. It comes from the heart, an energy that flows through your body into your hands so that your...
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We Remember The Sacred
July 3, 2019
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There are not many women who have been fully sexually satisfied. Deeply fulfilled to the core of their being. Touched, soul touched, heart touched. Body replete. Given herself totally, utterly. Every level of her being open, exposed, safe, loved, respected,...
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Inside, Too Quickly
July 1, 2019
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Many women have been penetrated too quickly, often way before their bodies are ready to have something inside. The impact of this is tension in the tissues of the yoni, often around and just inside...
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Healing The Body Slowly
June 27, 2019
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One of the most important elements of what I teach is that we live in patterns and that most of our patterns are not conscious. We're not aware of them, we simply do what we...
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Yoni Disconnect
June 24, 2019
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There are so many things that disconnect women from their sexuality, from their bodies, from their yoni's and from their pleasure....
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My Own Journey
June 20, 2019
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Over the past months I've experienced a deep sadness. I've felt it in my body, in my being, in my energy, in my heart. ...
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This Place, Beyond
June 18, 2019
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This experience is available to all of us. It can't really be described as our words limit our understanding. It can but be experienced. ...
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Stay In Your Body
June 13, 2019
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Our body is an intelligence, a consciousness, an awareness. It's in the body and it is the body. To be with it, to experience it, to feel it, we need to learn to stay in...
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Yoni Healing
June 10, 2019
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Yoni Healing is slow, so slow. It's gentle, so gentle. It's allowing, not making, not forcing, not rushing. It's allowing your body to release, to soften. To release the past. ...
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My Connected Male Body
June 6, 2019
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The relationship we have, with our genitals is not conscious, at best it’s functional, and deeper than that it’s contractive, it’s fearful with comparison, with a level of performance, with a lack of information and...
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This Conscious Kiss
June 3, 2019
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For so many of us kissing is a prelude, something we do that leads to something else. And for some people it’s something they have to do to get to the next step. Conscious Kissing is...
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Conscious Receiving
May 30, 2019
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There's an element of touch that I don't think we're always aware of because we focus so much on the giving of touch. Receiving touch. Consciously Receiving your lover's touch. ...
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Sensual Bondage Massage
May 26, 2019
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It's a touch experience that takes you deep into your body, into your energy, using a range of sensations. It's a place where sensation and emotion come together. It's an exploration of the possibilities of...
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The Best Time
May 23, 2019
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When we're present, when we're in this moment, when we're connected to ourselves, when we're open, when we're in a space of intimacy, with ourselves, more than anything else, this moment is the best there...
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The Heart Touch
May 20, 2019
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When I started teaching The Heart Touch the way I taught massage changed so much. ...
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