What You Seek
November 28, 2021
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The next thing is that we're going to create a space within us for something to happen. In this space, which is a space of intimacy with ourselves, a space of awareness. A space of...
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Out of Time Into Pleasure
November 21, 2021
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There is a beautiful unfolding in the journey of teaching, which is the journey of learning. I talk, and teach, a lot about orgasms. I also talk, and teach, a lot, about how orgasms are...
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The Heart of Male Sexuality
November 17, 2021
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We have, us men, these Hearts. We have this energy of connection. We have this space to hold you in. We have this fire to heat you in. We have this roar to appreciate you...
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Precious Tears
November 14, 2021
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There have been a lot of tears this week. My tears, men's tears, women's tears. Tears of gratitude and celebration. Tears of hurt. Tears of what's been hidden, being revealed, and the lightness, the freedom...
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I Have Become (Un)Comfortably Numb
November 10, 2021
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We're taught, from the time we're small, not to feel too much, too deeply. Or rather, we're not taught, to feel, to be with our emotions, to digest them, to learn from them. It's a...
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The Divine Possibility of Yoni Opening
November 7, 2021
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At the moment many women are reaching out with a desire to have deeper, more fulfilling experiences. For some women it's about being able to have sex without pain. For some women it's about having...
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The Practice of Sensual Awareness
October 31, 2021
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We use the word Sensuality in a variety of ways. We use it connected to sex, as the foreplay, the lead up to sex. We use it connected to experiences of touch, of sensation. We...
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A Neck Nuzzle
October 27, 2021
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I would like to share something with you that is so delicious, so simple. And like a lot of simple things in the world of sensuality there is such depth, such subtlety and such nuance...
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The Space of Male Pleasure Possibility
October 24, 2021
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In many of the workshops and lessons and experiences I've been facilitating lately, and over all the time I've been teaching, I've seen something in many men. Regardless of what the workshop or experience is...
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The Flow of Desire, Naturally
October 17, 2021
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Connection. Flow. Natural flow. An invitation that opens in space. Possibility. For something to emerge, arise, from the unknown. ...
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The Penetration of Fire
October 14, 2021
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There's an art of penetration that can deepen the experience incredibly for both partners. It's more about energy. About exploring sensation. About an intimacy, which is often lacking in friction sex. About the portal the energy...
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Sexual Awakening, Life Awakening
October 11, 2021
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Recently I've been doing a lot of work with people, men and women, on sexual awakening. This isn't something new, I've been doing this for a long time, and over time the elements of this...
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Penetration of the Heart
October 6, 2021
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The way most people have penetrative sex is what we call friction sex. That's exactly what it is, skin rubbing against skin. We generally do it harder and faster as the sensation builds to have...
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The Limitless Conversation of Touch
October 3, 2021
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Touch is a language That goes deeper than words It's the language of the body That has a knowing That speaks to the heart To the places deep within us Learning to touch, to massage, is one of...
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Hey Man, Learn to Soften
September 29, 2021
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I work a lot with men with 'performance' issues. And that's a big part of the problem. It's not a performance. It's not a race, a competition, an achievement. It's not something you have to...
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Intimacy Bypass
September 26, 2021
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I was thinking about intimacy, sex, making love. I was contemplating a piece I thought I was ready to write called Foreplay of the Heart. That wasn't quite there, this was. Often, for many of...
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Important Sexual Words, in a Clitoral Context
September 22, 2021
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I’d like to share some really important sexual words with you, and then put them in a specific context and experience. Before you get all excited these may not be the words you’re expecting, and they...
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She’d Like You to Know
September 19, 2021
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Over the past weeks, as over the years, I've had some conversations with women. These are women who are looking to heal, expand, change, improve their relationships. They'd like, love, want so much, to have...
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Heart – Centered Erotic Touch
September 15, 2021
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The first thing I teach everyone I work with, the first thing we do on all the workshops and retreats, the first thing on all the webinars, is The Heart Connection. When I started teaching...
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Divine Desire
September 7, 2021
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I started writing a piece on the shame of desire. This came up a lot in the past week with my students and clients. How we've been made to feel shame for the desires we...
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The (Yoni) Freedom to Feel
September 1, 2021
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The freedom to feel is the freedom to experience, feeling, sensation, energy, emotion. It's the freedom to experience the moment, in the fullness of all that it has to offer. To feel this requires us...
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Meet Yourself in Pleasure
August 29, 2021
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In pleasure we meet ourselves. In deep, conscious pleasure we meet some of the deepest parts of who we are. My teaching journey began teaching about pleasure, particularly women's pleasure. This included offering touch, massage...
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Sacred Yoni Massage
February 15, 2021
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The sacred in me arises when I sit before you, when I look into your eyes. The sacred in me arises when I kneel before you. The sacred in me arises when I sit between your...
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My Orgasmic Gratitude
February 7, 2021
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The energy of gratitude has such power. It brings us into awareness, into presence. It’s an element of intimacy. It connects us to ourselves, to another, to life, to the world. Gratitude heals. There is a sense of wonder in...
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Coffee and a Kiss
February 1, 2021
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It's been a while since I've written a Coffee piece, it's also been a while, a long while since I've written an erotic piece. I remember, she said, I asked you this long ago, a...
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Our Sexual Connection
January 31, 2021
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Most people who come and see me, looking for healing, as that's where so many journeys into sensuality, into Conscious Sexuality, into Tantra begin, are looking for something. They're looking to connect with their sexuality....
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My Love is My Arousal
January 31, 2021
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Conscious Pleasure Experiences have the amazing quality of being portals of learning, healing and growth. This is where we shift from having sex to making love. We shift from a goal-oriented experience, orgasm, to a...
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Changing the Lingam Pattern
January 17, 2021
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For so many men the masculine expression of sexuality is hard. It's driving, it's taking. Its need based, released based. It's about size, performance. It's driven by a model that has trapped men in a very...
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