The Orgasmic Field
One of the reasons we seek orgasms is that just for a moment, brief as it may be, it totally takes us out of ourselves…
The Many Petals of Yoni Massage
There are many expressions of Yoni Massage, many petals of this most beautiful art of pleasure…
Taking Care
Every Water Flow Massage Experience has a theme, an energy…
Holiday Pleasure and Pressure
So many of us are looking for more pleasure, deeper connection and intimacy as well as a greater experience of sexual energy…
Slowly, Deeply…
So many of us are looking for more pleasure, deeper connection and intimacy as well as a greater experience of sexual energy…
What Do You Want From Sex
My learning of life, of consciousness, has brought me to see that everything is connected, and that everything has a purpose…
Orgasmic Gratitude
My learning of life, of consciousness, has brought me to see that everything is connected, and that everything has a purpose…
Honouring Love
My learning of life, of consciousness, has brought me to see that everything is connected, and that everything has a purpose…
Permission to Love
I sat in my practice recently with a woman who had never had an orgasm…
Don’t Teach Me To F***, Teach Me To Feel
I recently had an experience, probably the most intense pleasure experience I’ve ever had…
Time For Pleasure
I had some interesting realisations the other day during a particularly beautiful massage about time…
The Heart of my Lingam
He hungers, my Lingam. He hungers for you…
Relentless Growth
When you choose Consciousness, when you choose Growth, really choose it, commit to its path, it becomes relentless…
Emotional Expansion
For a long time I struggled with the concept of negative and positive emotions…
Meaningful Sex
Over the years of working in the field of Conscious Sexuality I’ve heard many people say that they want sex to be meaningful…
My Tantric Quest
With Jonti I’ve learnt so many small, subtle ways of being with myself and getting comfortable with my sexuality…
Make a Life of Love
Our great disservice to love is that we’ve euphemistically limited the making of love to sex…
Making The After-Love Last
There’s so much said about foreplay, about the build-up to sex…
Thoughts on Healing
Over the past week I’ve sat in my studio and listened to stories of deep pain…
Prepare Yourself for Pleasure
Prepare yourself for pleasure…
Heart Time
Heart Time is where your relationship happens…
The Power of Pleasure
My lover is a woman of incredible sexual energy and power…
The Missing Element of Love
Imagine if we’ve got something wrong about love…
Sexual Healing, Life Healing
I’ve been doing healing work since 1993, mostly in the field of Conscious Sexuality…
Alive Yoni, Alive Lingam
I have observed something beautiful in my lover and in myself. Her Yoni is alive…
Love Makes Us
Every time, my love, that you take me into your body…
The Gift of Presence
One of the greatest gifts you can give yourself is presence, to be present in yourself. To be in your body, to be in your breath, to be in your emotions. To be with yourself. To feel. To …
Healing Your Relationship
I spend a great deal of time listening to, and helping with relationship issues and problems. Here’s something about relationships. If your relationship …
The Subtle Power of Stillness
There are many opportunities to have experiences of beauty and power that can have deep impact on our lives. One of these is our next Retreat in Mozambique, Making Love With Life.
Willingness to Heal
There are many opportunities to have experiences of beauty and power that can have deep impact on our lives. One of these is our next Retreat in Mozambique, Making Love With Life.
The Sexual Exchange of Energy
There are many opportunities to have experiences of beauty and power that can have deep impact on our lives. One of these is our next Retreat in Mozambique, Making Love With Life.
To Be Wanted
There are many opportunities to have experiences of beauty and power that can have deep impact on our lives. One of these is our next Retreat in Mozambique, Making Love With Life.
Meaning of Experience
There are many opportunities to have experiences of beauty and power that can have deep impact on our lives. One of these is our next Retreat in Mozambique, Making Love With Life.
Conversations With Life
There are many opportunities to have experiences of beauty and power that can have deep impact on our lives. One of these is our next Retreat in Mozambique, Making Love With Life.