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Slow Subtle Super Sex

Yesterday's coffee was a cortado. The easiest way to explain a cortado is an intense cappuccino. And delicious cakes, and even more delicious friends. And what, you may ask, has that do with Slow Subtle Super...

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Friday Afternoon Coffee

Friday afternoon coffee in the delicious sun, and I'm thinking about the week. It's been a roller-coaster. Waking up a few mornings with an incredible bleakness. The image was of a vast concrete plain, grey sky, cold,...

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Conscious Sensual Massage

I love women. Most of my work is with women. And I must say that I love working with men, and I get so excited, I celebrate when men come to heal, to learn, to...

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Looking for Intimacy

I have had some incredibly painful, sad and deep conversations over the past few weeks. These have been with men and women, single people and couples. So much of it comes to this. We're looking...

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Conscious Sensual Coffee

I'm sitting in the afternoon sun with coffee It's been cold for a few days in Johannesburg, this is the first afternoon that it's warm enough to sit outside. Coffee is an important part of my...

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The Feast of Your Body

I love food, I love to cook, and I love to eat. There is such sensuality in food, and coffee, in every way, texture, taste, smell, the way things look. I also enjoy watching food...

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The First Step

I get a lot of calls, message, emails, from people with sexual issues. A lot happens before people make these contacts. A lot of internal twisting and turning. It’s a difficult thing to do. It’s incredibly vulnerable,...

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Teaching Massage Online

For a long time I have resisted teaching massage online. Firstly I held the belief that it has to be in the same space to get the subtlety and nuance. There's a transmission of a...

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A Tender Moment

I've had a lot of conversations with people in the past weeks. People in relationships and single people. Mostly people who are dealing with issues and problems, some struggling deeply, some hurting, and some people...

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Exploring Sexual Healing

There is much of our world that has taken what is sacred and made it dirty. There is much of our world that has taken what is light and made it dark. There is much of our...

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Exploring Healing

Many people come to a sexual journey looking for healing. There's a problem, an issue, a blockage,a pain, a hurt. That's where so many journeys begin. A lot of my work happens in this space,...

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We Need Touch

We need to touch, and we need to be touched. We need to hold, and we need to be held. We need to pleasure, and we need to be pleasured. These are needs. Not wants...

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The Love of Desire

I've shared with you that over the past year I haven't had a sexual encounter with another. For someone who has had a rich and full erotic life this has been really interesting. For someone...

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In Service to The Heart Touch

I have been doing and teaching massage and touch for almost 30 years. The past 20 plus years in the field of Conscious Sexuality, Kashmiri Pleasure Massage, Yoni Massage, Taoist Massage, Lingam Massage, Energy Massage,...

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The Conscious Cock

The Conscious C**k is an expression of the heart. It is a c**k of service, of worship. He has gone through and beyond performance. He has gone through and beyond need. He has gone...

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Devotion

More than a year ago my lover said to me that she thought devotion might be more important than love. We're not together anymore, and that line has stayed in my head. I've come back to it...

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Friction Sex, Energy Sex

Most people have what we call friction sex. It's friction, simply. One body part rubbing against another. It creates friction. (And as I write that something I've never quite seen before comes to me, I'll...

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A Soft Cock Conversation

So much of the power of a cock is in its hardness, in its heat. In its ability to penetrate, to open, to spread. So much of its power, and so much of its pleasure....

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My Nurtured Cock

There is a practice that I teach in workshops and on healing journeys. It's a practice of creating a conscious relationship with your genitals. The relationship most of us have with our genitals is, at...

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Exploring The Erotic Spirit

I was preparing for the webinar I have coming up on Thurs, Exploring the Erotic Spirit, with a smile inside. It’s based on a workshop I teach called Awakening the Erotic Spirit. For a while I’ve...

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Yoni Healing Massage Pt 3

Within our bodies is the most incredible wisdom. It's so incredible, it's Divine. This body, within us, has all we need to heal, to learn, to grow, to release. This body is sacred space, our...

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Where Are We, In Love?

I've been thinking a lot about what is, what is happening in our world. I don't know. I don't know what's true, what's real. Not a lot makes sense. I do know this. Our world...

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Loving A Woman

I love women. I love loving women. There are many elements in loving a woman, one of them is loving loving a woman. Loving to love her. Loving to honour her. Loving to revere her....

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