The Power of Play
Exploring a different story of our sexuality I come to an understanding of the power of playfulness…
Men Going Deeper
Last week in my practice I had two incredibly deep experiences. Both of these are connected to a different story of our sexuality…
Men’s Story
As I look at a different story for our sexuality I turn to an experience I had recently and what it brought to mind…
Makers of Love
During some deep discuss with me lover we’ve spoken about not knowing what certain words mean to us anymore. A good example of this is ‘spirituality’…
A Different Story
Opening is expansion, Softness is welcoming, Gentleness is tender…
Stress and Sex, A New Possibility
We all know, and are told more and more every day, of the impact of stress…
A World of Healers
Imagine if we lived in a world of healers. The healers who say that I am in the world and the world is within me…
The Pleasure Connection
Over time I’ve worked with so many people, men and women, who have disconnected themselves…
An Erotic Possibility
I’d like to share an erotic possibility with you, with thanks to my lover…
Miracles and Magic
So many people are looking for miracles and magic…
Sexpectations
Have you really thought about what YOU expect from sex?
In Service Of The Heart
If I spent some time every day connecting to my heart…
Natural Connection
Much of healing is about connection…
Quiet Lingam, The Gentle Love
It’s an energy penetration, it’s a heart penetration, it’s gentle, it’s soft, it’s slow…
Making More Love
The sexual paradigm that so much of the Western world lives with is essentially a Porn – based model…
Heart Work
The deeper I go into sexuality, the deeper I go into the heart…
The Healing Of The Deep Erotic Space
The Deep Erotic Space is an experience of energy, sexual energy, vitality, life-force…
Changing Ourselves, Changing Our World
Monsters abound in our world. They always have, they always will…
Touch
‘Often the hands will solve a mystery that the intellect has struggled with in vain’. C G Jung
Lessons in Sacred Sex 2
One night I asked her how many lovers she’d had…
Let The Orgasm Be The Beggining
Let the orgasm be the beginning of lovemaking, not the end…
A Heart Life
I don’t want to do shallow, I don’t want to do mediocre…
Better Sex, Heart Sex
A while ago someone who comes to a lot of my workshops said something that struck a chord within me…
Loving Ourselves
Is it easier to love another than to love ourselves?
The Heart of Release
For so long we thought that our reaction to stress had two expressions, fight or flight, or something along that spectrum…
Be A Human of Emotions
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about positive, about being positive, about negative and positive emotions…
The Paradox of Pleasure
I was struck by an incredible paradox we’ve created that impacts on female sexuality…
Benefits of Sensual and Erotic Massage
The World of Conscious Sensual and Erotic Massage…
In The Silence
In the silence we look…
Sensation is the Doorway to Emotion
Sensation is the doorway to emotion…
Coming Home
I stood in the sun and felt it enter me, felt its warmth…
Just Because You’re having Orgasms
Just because you’re having orgasms, does not mean that you’re sexually fulfilled…
Lessons in Sacred Sex 1
There are many ways of touching a woman, she said softly in the quiet…
Conscious Quiet
Come and let us sit in the quiet, in the conscious quiet…
Massage and Touch
On the Sensual Massage retreat last weekend someone asked a fascinating question, ‘What’s the difference between massage and touch?’
Stay Connected
I love you, and I’m angry, or hurt, or frustrated or whatever, and I want to stay connected and work this out…
Sex and Sensuality as a Practice
It came out of a discussion of the purpose of sex, why we have sex, and the possibilities it has for us…
The Unspoken Conversation
I went to a Constellation workshop last week. I understand the work to be about family patterns that we carry…
The Pleasure Communication
Touching, kissing, caressing, sensual experience, sex are all a communication…
The Heart Revolution
Generally we live with a Porn Model of sex…
The Gifts of Loving
She asked me what I get from loving her…
Why a Sex Coach?
This is the age of the Coach…
Healing by Adding
Many of us struggle to change things that cause us pain, that limit us…
Eargasms and Expectations
Let’s begin with an Eargasm…
Our Sexual Story
I hear people’s stories, our stories. Our sexual stories…
G-Spot, oh G-Spot
G-Spot, oh G-Spot, wherefore art thou?
Whose Orgasm Is It Anyway?
Who are you having orgasms for…
For Myself
I cannot live my life for you…
Openness
How would it be if you spoke openly about sex…
Deep Into My Body
On the inward journey we go deeper into ourselves…
