Next weekend in Johannesburg, I’m sharing one of my signature workshops, A Lover’s Touch, The Art of Sensual and Erotic Massage.
It’s the beginning of a journey that has no limits. After more than 25 years of exploring Touch, of experiencing the depths it can take us to, of what’s possible, the sensations, the feelings, the energy, the ways to touch, I can say that with amazement.
Learning to touch is one of the most important sensual skills we can develop, whether you’re in a relationship or not.
It’s a pathway to deep intimacy and connection, it’s a pathway to incredible pleasure, and a whole lot more.
Let’s look at some of the more.
The first thing about touch is this.
It’s one of the major languages of the body.
Our touch goes deeper than words, it speaks a truth that the body knows, beyond the filters and judgments, the bias of the mind.
It tells us things in a way that we just know.
And learning to speak the language of touch is vital in the sensual, the erotic, the sexual expression of who we are.
Touch conveys our intention, it tells what’s within us, and when we touch with awareness we open a conversation of limitless depth, unending sensation, felt intimacy and safety, and the possibility of mind-blowing pleasure.
In a relationship, touch is one of the deepest expressions of intimacy.
Desire will come and go, there will be times we want more sex, times we want less.
For many of us, this is one of the biggest expressions of intimacy.
Touch is always there, even when, and sometimes especially when, we don’t want sex.
It keeps the sensual alive and vital.
It’s an expression of tenderness, caring, of presence, of love.
It allows us to be sensual, to be erotic, not always sexual.
And the interesting thing is, the more we touch, with awareness, the more pleasure we experience, and ultimately, the more sex we have, if we choose.
Touch opens doors of limitless exploration and discovery of our amazing bodies.
And I say that with the continuous wonder of my own journey, and what I share.
It’s, literally, no exaggeration, no hype, a life-long journey of discovery.
So much of what we do is patterned and conditioned, our sexuality often more so.
One of the most common problems in long-term relationships is boredom.
We do the same thing in the same way.
Of course we’re going to get bored.
Touch takes us into worlds of sensation, realms of feelings and universes of pleasure that are the stuff dreams are made of.
I’ve used the word pleasure a lot here, and for many of us that connects to sex.
Sex is, mostly, pleasurable.
And there is so much for us to experience.
Our entire bodies are wired for sensation and feeling, and the expanse of what we can feel is enormous.
We touch in patterned ways, when our skin, our nervous systems are begging for what they’re designed to experience, which is deliciousness multiplied, exponentially.
There is something so many women talk about, especially but not exclusively, in relationships. It goes something like this, ‘I am so much more than my breasts and genitals, and that’s pretty much all he wants.’
A lot of times there’s a perception a woman doesn’t want sex. She might not want sex, not that kind of sex. She does want connection, she does want sensual experience, she does want eroticism. With all of her being, all of her body.
And when we understand this, when we get this, and when we learn how to do this, so much changes in our relationships, in our pleasure, and in our sexuality.
Simply put, and I’ve seen this for all the years I’ve been teaching.
When men learn to touch, life changes.
As we go deeper into touch we learn about other things that expand our hearts, open our bodies.
Things like touch as a spiritual path, touch as worship and adoration.
How touch can be a path to expanded states of consciousness.
And how touch is the way to states of pleasure that are ecstatic.
The art and skill of touch is both an inner journey and an outward expression of some of the deepest, most exciting, most erotic, most creative, most loving parts of who we are.
I think of so many workshops that I, and others teach, around touch.
How life-changing these can be, the doors they open.
A Lover’s Touch, which has more than 4 levels, Kashmiri Massage, Taoist Sexual Energy Massage, Sensual Bondage Massage, Yoni and Lingam Massage for healing and pleasure, Tantric Massage, Yoni and Lingam Puja, Mouth Massage, Water Flow Massage and more…
I invite you…
