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Water Flow Massage
Unique experience is for singles and couples
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Gooroo Guide
A way to share my work with you in an easily & accessibly. I offer a daily private message via WhatsApp - Look at the GOOROO GUIDE Page above for more info
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Tantric Healing
Powerful & transformative therapy capable of releasing trauma at a cellular level within the body.
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Conscious Sensuality
Unlock the pleasures of true intimacy through Tantra
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Journey of Sexual Exploration
Discover new pleasures
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Sensual Massage
Sensual Tantric Massage
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Tantra for couples
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Sensual Meditation of Touch
Learn the many gifts that The Sensual Meditation of Touch has to offer.
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Awaken The Erotic Spirit
Within all of us dwells an erotic spirit, often not expressed
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ErosLife is a platform for sensual and sexual healing, learning, exploration and relationship coaching.
Fire Sex

I was thinking about Hard Sex and Fire Sex.
They’re not the same thing.

Fire Sex

Making Love

For a while I’ve had the awareness of how few of us make love.
We

We offer:

  • Private sessions
  • Consultations
  • Workshops
  • Talks
  • Lessons
  • Retreats
  • DVD’s
  • On-line programs.

We work with singles and couples of all orientations.

The basic philosophy of ErosLife is how we can create possibilities in pleasure, in relationships, in health and all aspects of life. Our sexual energy is our life force. We can access and use this energy as a force for healing, growth, meditation, creativity and change. Our sexuality connects to all aspects of ourselves and our lives. As we remove our sexual blockages and allow more of that energy to flow, we allow all other energies to flow as we become more conscious, more connected and more alive.

Jonti Searll is the creator of  ErosLife. He has been working in the field of Conscious Sexuality for almost 20 years, creating healing processes, workshops and material that has helped many people create fulfilling experiences and relationships.

Jonti writes extensively and presents SexTalk every Fri on cliffcentral.com.

His journey has been one of personal exploration and enquiry, learning in many healing and related fields.

Our sexuality is linked to all of who we are, our sexual energy is our life-force. Releasing the blockages we’ve created and freeing ourselves from the limitations of the past allows us to create lives, relationships and experiences of incredible beauty.

Our sexual energy is a force for not only personal transformation, but has the power to be used to change our world. This is Jonti’s mission.

Treat yourself and your lover with a gift of love

Testimonials

Thank you!
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I am learning so much from your videos and getting to know you as a human being which is truly inspirational
Thank you! I am learning so much from your videos and getting to know you as a human being which is truly inspirational When the energy is created slowly and from within it is more gentle but far more powerful
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than when it comes from an external/physical source. It’s the difference between a bottle of champagne and a bottle of coke. The bubbles in the champagne have been fermented over time and are small, gentle and long lasting while the bubbles in coke are forced in and are large, harsh and short lived. Both react when shaken but the champagne is far more explosive and celebratory.
It is with delight that I share my experience of my sensual journey in partnership with you & eros.
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Although I am not new to spiritual / energy healing I have not been to the depth of my core barriers to expressing my life force until your work took me to meet and awaken my sensual self. I became aware of the subtle but powerful barrier to expressing myself through sex as seated in deep shame that showed up as intense feelings of vulnerability (fear) whenever I want to venture into expressing my sensuality. This provoked me into staying small, invisible and insecure; thinking there was something wrong with me. As I continue the excercises and practices I performed some ceremonies over the holidays; breaking up with shame (as a big one); a profound sense of release and relieve flowed out and into my being.
I am not sure that I have the words to describe last night – it was deeply healing, connecting, loving.
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More than anything it reminded me that what separates us is so much less important than what binds us together, to each other and the infinite love that is the universe. It is not somewhere ‘out there’, it is us. It is not depleted by giving or sharing but renewed and enhanced and so in giving the gifter is gifted.
I am beyond grateful for the work you have done
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I watched the Expanded Orgasm and the Ultimate Blow Job videos and practiced the advice given on a dildo to perfect my techniques. I am now in a relationship and I have applied this knowledge on my man and what a difference it has made to our sex life! I feel empowered and confident sexually and I feel like a Goddess in the bedroom. The feedback I have received from him is that he has never experienced anything like this before! He has enjoyed multiple orgasms which has been a first for him and I have enjoyed being the source of so much pleasure for him.
You create a uniquely special experience for us at the water flow massage.
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The atmosphere is always special , safe and yet exhilarating. As a single woman it can be a bit daunting participating in a group event on your own. Most of these anxieties are scenarious that I create in my mind because of my own insecurities I guess. Some of the activities are done in pairs and some are done in groups. There are couples and for the paired activities you will be paired up with a stranger. Sometimes male and sometimes female. The uncertainties always cross my mind but I have learnt to embrace the uncertainty and trust in the process. I’ve never felt awkward or embarrassed not even at my first experience. You create a space that is warm , inviting,compassionate and respectful and it is very much appreciated. My partners have always been wonderful and its interesting getting to know them and sharing with them.
A beautiful opportunity and experience
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Last night’s session was a beautiful opportunity and experience of being a sensual human being. It was a step into the unknown and allowing myself to be vulnerable in order to learn more about myself and experience authenticity, peace and love. Thank you for creating such a safe and loved spaced for us to be able to come into ourselves.
Most moving, healing and profound experiences of my life
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Thank you for one of the most moving, healing and profound experiences of my life. I will try and write something for the website – but it is so hard to express the experience in words….’ Thank you for all that you do
Most moving, healing and profound experiences of my life
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Thank you for one of the most moving, healing and profound experiences of my life. I will try and write something for the website – but it is so hard to express the experience in words….’ Thank you for all that you do
I was not prepared for the huge emotional release
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I was very deceived by my mind approaching this water massage. Expecting nothing more than a relaxing time in a heated pool that could possibly be erotic, I was not prepared for the huge emotional release linked to this gentle and beautiful experience.
Beautiful to see how people experienced peace, healing and love
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I experienced a lot of different energies last night. I felt that we were all on our own journeys searching for different kinds of truths within ourselves and it was beautiful too see how people were able to experience peace ,healing and love in the space that you created.
Thank you for the experience
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Thank you for an experience that was everything you promised, spiritual, healing and pure sensuality
Easily and gently we can free ourselves of negative energies
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The experience has made me aware of the deep fears, toxic shame and judgements we carry within us and how easily and gently we can free ourselves of these negative energies – moving towards love, freedom, self-expression, growth and acceptance of ourselves as well as all around us.
Amazingly freeing and peaceful
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An amazingly freeing and peaceful experience. It was a privilege to be part of such an awesome and loving experience with such beautiful people.
A platform to simply experience and observe without judgement
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Nudity is only a big deal if you have your clothes on. That was one of my thoughts after the water flow experience. Also, people are just people. Not man or woman. Not fat or thin. Everybody is simply human, and touch is simply touch. For me, water flow provided this platform to simply experience and observe without judgement.
Beautiful experience
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Thank you Jonti for creating this beautiful experience and for stretching me beyond the narrow confines of my limiting beliefs.
My fear was released completely
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My huge fear of being naked with other people, what that meant in my world, was completely released as I undressed mentally and physically. Now I know that my body is mine, it’s beautiful, and nudity does not mean I am expected to be sexual .The vulnerability and absolute beauty of every person was honored. Some chose to remain clothed, and I thought I would feel embarrassed at my nudity. I have never felt so free, so respected, so supported, and so at peace in just me, my own skin.
Profound Experience
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he Water Massage is one of the most profound experiences of my life. I came in with fear and misgivings and discovered a safe, gentle and respectful place of boundless peace and acceptance. The experience has made me aware of the deep fears, toxic shame and judgements we carry within us and how easily and gently we can free ourselves of these negative energies – moving towards love, freedom, self-expression, growth and acceptance of ourselves as well as all around us. Thank you Jonti for creating this beautiful experience and for stretching me beyond the narrow confines of my limiting beliefs.
Hard to Find the Words
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It is very hard to find the words to express the experience I had …. Here is an effort …. The Water Flow massage was one of unconditional love, intimacy, sensuality and weightlessness not only in body but in spirit and mind too. It was a blissful experience to be submerged in “the womb” with the lights down low in a safe space to expose my vulnerability as a being. Each person respectfully held space for every other soul present …. every body became a piece of art that I could love through my hands extended from my heart centre. It was exhilarating ….. just to be ….. without making small talk about insignificant crap while hiding behind masks or labels. I would without hesitation, suggest a Water Flow massage to anybody who is in need of relaxation, love, being real and true to yourself. Magic happens outside of your comfort zone. Just do it and live while you’re alive.
Erotic Spirit Workshop
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Like Pandora’s box… That is how Friday night’s Awakening The Erotic Spirit Workshop was anticipated. And the evening live up to that expectation. The Workshop had so many different facets, each a wonderful (and some delicious) experience in its own. Each challenged your comfort zone and moving our boundaries. All of the senses were tantalised and woken up in a safe and non-judgemental environment.’ Expanded orgasms and Ultimate blow jobs ‘Just to let you know, I watched the Expanded Orgasm and the Ultimate Blow Job videos and practiced the advice given on a dildo to perfect my techniques. I am now in a relationship and I have applied this knowledge on my man and what a difference to has made to our sex life! I feel empowered and confident sexually which was not the case previously and I feel like a Goddess in the bedroom. The feedback I have received from him is that he has never experienced anything like this before! He has enjoyed multiple orgasms which has been a first
Expanded orgasms and Ultimate blow jobs
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Just to let you know, I watched the Expanded Orgasm and the Ultimate Blow Job videos and practiced the advice given on a dildo to perfect my techniques. I am now in a relationship and I have applied this knowledge on my man and what a difference to has made to our sex life! I feel empowered and confident sexually which was not the case previously and I feel like a Goddess in the bedroom. The feedback I have received from him is that he has never experienced anything like this before! He has enjoyed multiple orgasms which has been a first for him and I have enjoyed being the source of so much pleasure for him. I am beyond grateful for the work you have done and I am so excited to continue this journey of exploration into pleasure by attending your workshops and increasing my video collection.’
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