For more than 30 yrs I’ve been teaching, and doing conscious sensual massage, erotic massage, in many ways.
In this time I’ve seen how the journey into touch is so many things, has so many dimensions, and is literally, a life-long journey of creativity.
Sometimes the creativity is a small shift in some way, and sometimes, sometimes, even after all this time something comes up that opens new dimensions of possibility.
This happened recently.
A massage experience that expands intimacy, connection, sensation, body access, body-to-body contact, energy, eroticism and more.
It’s a Standing Massage.
It’s such a simple shift, and it changes so much, opens amazing doors of touch.
It offers a whole new range of movements that gives whole-body access in a way that not many other positions do.
When we see the body differently, from a different angle, both physically and metaphorically, it invites us to touch in different ways.
It takes us out of our pattern, which is really important, into possibility.
It takes us out of the conditioned way of touching that we have, into curiosity, exploration, discovery.
It takes us, both giving and receiving, into a new experience of seeing, feeling, sensing.
There’s a deep connection between touch and movement, and this experience is a beautiful expression of that.
It becomes a dance that allows both giver and receiver to move in a way, to touch in a way, that giving and receiving become one.
It can be slow and soft, quite still and quiet, or more active, even fiery.
One of the most important elements in sensual and erotic massage is whole-body touch, full-body strokes.
This, Standing Massage, gives us access to the body in a way that’s open, easy and so natural.
It’s also a position, positions, that allow for bodies to touch along lengths, and still have movement, caress, touch, at the same time.
The intimacy of this, the connection, the skin-to-skin is amazing.
This touch opens an awareness to parts of the body we often either don’t touch, or pay a lot of attention to.
This is important because we tend to focus, especially in patterned touch, on the ‘sexier’ parts of the body. What we miss out on is how sensitive so many parts of the body really are, how beautiful, subtle, arousing, comforting, soothing, the sensation can be.
And as we touch, how the sensitivity awakens. Something that might not have felt a lot before, now, mmm…
In long-term relationships, one of the biggest issues with pleasure and intimacy is boredom.
We stop exciting ourselves and each other, and ourselves in each other.
Desire requires novelty.
When we commit to this in a relationship we keep something alive and open that keeps a fire burning, hot and interesting.
Discovery, exploration, expansion, are some of the keys for this. Keys that open limitless doors of passion, pleasure, intimacy, fun and arousal.
This is a whole new chapter in sensual and erotic touch.
There’s a lot of detail in this, how it works, we’ll share it soon, in a workshop.
I invite you to join us for the adventure into your body in a way you’ve probably never experienced before.
