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It’s been a while since I’ve written a coffee piece.
This afternoon is topless, me, and cold coffee which is a delicious way of drinking coffee, as it’s over 30′ in Johannesburg.
I am so looking forward to coffee in Cape Town soon, when I teach and share there with you.
Which is a round-about way of getting to where I want to, which led me to write this piece.
Last week I had coffee with my social media coach, Bronwynne. (By the way, she is fantastic, if you’re looking for help with social media, I’ll happily connect you.)
I showed her what I’d written as an introduction to the workshops, and I saw from the look on her face that it wasn’t…not not good, just flowery, poetic, round-about…
It made me think of a misquote by Dan Aykroyd from an old TV series, ‘Just the facts, ma’am, just the facts’.
So…
If you’re looking for healing.
If you’re looking to explore your sensuality and sexuality, and have more pleasure.
If you’re curious.
If you’d like to be in an open, non-judgmental forum about sexuality.
If you’d like to be more sexually confident, and proficient.
If you’d like to learn more sexual techniques.
If you’d like to have an experience of connection, sensuality, intimacy and sexual energy.
If you’d like to be able to ask questions about sex and pleasure.
If you’re looking for who you are as a sexual being, a pleasure being.
If sex is painful for you.
If you’re not having orgasms.
If you’re having erection and ejaculation issues.
If you feel disconnected from your body, from your sexuality.
If you don’t feel a connection between your genitals and your heart.
If you don’t know a lot about your body, about sex, about your partner’s body.
If you’re looking for more.
If you’re looking to understand your desires.
If you’re looking for greater intimacy and connection.
The list goes on…
There’s a lot in what I’ve written there, and let’s look at healing first.
This means different things to all of us, but most of us have had experiences that go from painful in many ways to unfulfilling, to boring, to disconnected, to unsatisfying.
To have a place where we can begin to heal is one of the greatest gifts we can give ourselves.
Then there’s pleasure.
I wrote a piece once saying that I think most of us experience about 30% of the pleasure we’re able to.
There is so much more for us than we’re generally aware of.
We get no education for pleasure, and about our bodies.
We don’t learn to communicate about sex.
There is such deep judgment, shame, guilt, embarrassment about sex.
Sex is the part of life that is judged, and misunderstood the most.
To be in a space that’s open, accepting and allows for questions, for exploration and experience is so important on a sensual and sexual journey.
What I shared with you are some of the reasons people, men, women and couples, of all orientations, come to these workshops for.
The next question is how we can answer all of these things?
Maybe we can, and maybe we can begin a journey, because some of them are not simple. Some of what we’ve experienced is deep within us, and takes time to heal, to be released.
Some of these things have been with us for a long time, they’re deep patterns.
And we’re going to talk a lot about patterns, how important they are in understanding ourselves, and how we can create new ways of being.
Here’s what we can do.
We can learn a framework of healing, of sex and pleasure, and of relationship.
This gives us a way to see things, a context.
And we can learn the tools, the practices and processes, the techniques to start doing things differently.
For many of us, the first part is healing. When we have a way to do that, the understanding, and the practices, we can begin.
When we’d like more pleasure, intimacy, when we have a way to look at that, an understanding of what that means, and how to do that, we can have the experiences we’d like.
When we’d like to explore more, understand sexual energy more, and we have a pathway, we can do that.
That’s what I am looking forward to sharing with you.
Please message or email me, jonti@eroslife.co.za, with any questions you have about the events.
They’re on my website, www.eroslife.co.za, and I will be sharing more with you about them.
I’ve created a FB group for the workshops, please join it. I will be sharing lots of stuff with you there, including some practices and processes. Here’s the link: https://www.facebook.com/groups/352671546169704/
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