Conscious Sexuality is my thing
And this is the
Very Merry Month Of Masturbation
So let’s bring them together
And make Masturbation Conscious
Let’s elevate
Let’s deepen
Our experience
And explore the limitless world
Of Self-Pleasuring.
Let’s begin here…
For most of us
Masturbation is simply functional
We do this mostly with a goal
Which us generally orgasm
To fall asleep
To release stress
To relax
We’re bored
Its a pattern…
And all of that is OK
There’s just a whole lot more.
The whole lot more comes in when we add
Conscious
This opens a relationship with ourselves
With our bodies, our hearts, our minds, our energy
It gives us a way to explore and experience ourselves deeply
Our feelings and sensations
It gives us a way to have sacred experiences with ourselves
To feel Divine
To feel whole
To heal
To explore ourselves in so many ways
To make love with ourselves.
Self-Pleasuring is about this whole body
This whole delicious, beautiful, wonder-full body
It’s about sensation and feeling, emotion and energy
It’s about exploring and discovering
Every inch of me
It’s about dancing with my pleasure, whatever it brings
It’s about a relationship with myself that opens me
That keeps expanding me into myself
It’s about learning the subtle within myself
It’s about the connection between my body and my heart
It’s the intimacy with myself
In being a sexual and sensual being
Just for me.
At times, Self-Pleasuring is going beyond orgasm
To change the pattern
To stop chasing
To have experiences that don’t end
To allow the energy, the sexual energy of vitality, of creativity to flow through me
To fill me
To vibrate and pulsate with energy
To be deeply present within myself
To feel the expansion of my heart In every part of me
To see, to feel, to know
The power of this transcendent energy
As a force of spiritual experience.
In the fullness of my body
I find my Sensuality
And in my Sensuality
I find presence, awareness
That expands into life, into taste, into smell, into hearing, into seeing, into touching, into feeling…
And these, in turn, expand the pleasure of my body, the pleasure of my sexuality
My Self-Pleasuring becomes a life of pleasuring, and pleasuring in life.
There is healing in this
The healing of disconnect from my body, my heart
The healing of guilt and shame about my pleasure
The healing of the relationship with my pleasure
The healing of my YoniLingam
The healing of permission to pleasure
The healing of owning my pleasure, mine
The healing of exploring the mind and the body of my pleasure
The healing of liberation from inhibition
The healing of myself as a Pleasure Being.
In Conscious Self-Pleasuring is a world of possibility
From sexual energy, to awareness, to ritual, to spiritual, to emotional, to energy, to fantasy
To intensity and subtlety
To nuance and experiences that can keep the delicious feelings alive for hours, days
It’s me, being a Sensual, Sexual Being, whether I have a lover or not
It’s me, choosing more of the pleasure of me in life, and more of life in me.
With love.
