Many years ago I came across Steve and Vera Bodansky’s Extended Massive Orgasm.
It switched something on inside of me, and I began teaching the practice.
It was the 2nd workshop I started teaching, and over 25 yrs later we’ve walked an amazing road together.
Steve and Vera, when she was alive, were amazing guides and teachers through this time, and I thank you.
Expanded Orgasm, as I call it, is a practice where healing, pleasure, sexual energy, intimacy, meditation and expanded consciousness come together.
Which is quite amazing.
As much as it’s a practice, it’s also a philosophy, that brings something different to our sexuality.
What this is, is that it teaches us about being in an orgasmic state rather than just having an orgasm.
And this idea opens the door to limitless pleasure, and possibility in so many ways.
Because we can be in an orgasmic state for 20, 30 minutes, even longer, an hr, 2 hrs.
And we can feel the energy in our bodies for sometimes a day or more.
This is where pleasure shifts, enormously, from a 30 second contractive orgasm, into the orgasmic field, and all it holds for us.
And in this state of orgasmic being, which is different to having an orgasm, this is where so much happens.
This is where we directly experience our sexual energy, and feel its power.
This is where healing happens.
This is where energy moves.
This is where we surrender.
This is a path to expanded states of consciousness.
This is a path of sexual meditation.
And this is a path of full-body, full-being pleasure.
Our sexual energy is a portal to states of being, and experiences, beyond what many of us know.
One of the reasons is we get stuck on a few things.
The first is the term sexual energy.
As soon as we hear that phrase we go to the idea of pleasure, and stop there.
Mostly because we’ve never experienced deeper states of energy, and never experienced how sexual energy is a doorway to more than pleasure.
The next place we get stuck is the word orgasm.
Generally our connection to orgasm is a 30 second contractive ending of sex.
It’s become the goal, the achievement, the criterion by which we judge our sexual experience.
As well as understanding that there are so many different orgasms, we don’t often include Expanded Orgasm on the list, because it’s such a different experience.
When we make the sexual energy available to the body in this way, we connect with the innate wisdom within us.
This force directs the energy where it most needs to go, it flows in a natural way that makes the best use of this.
This is where the healing happens, in so many ways, on so many levels.
Deeper than this, Expanded Orgasm is also a way to reach expanded states of consciousness.
And as much as we talk about going beyond the pleasure, it’s important to know that this is an experience of pleasure, mind-blowing, full-body, orgasmic pleasure.
In a different way, because it doesn’t end the experience.
It goes on and on, waves moving through us, for almost as long as we like.
This week in Johannesburg, on Fri evening, I’m teaching an Expanded Orgasm Workshop.
It’s for singles and couples of all orientations
I love this workshop because of what it gives, which is so much more than the description.
An in-depth Yoni anatomy lesson.
The principles of Expanded Orgasm.
The practice for men and women, the how-to, the technique, the strokes.
How to have this experience on your own, as a deep self-pleasuring and sexual energy connection.
And, because it’s a Fri night, the opportunity to practice and experience at the event.
DM or email, jonti@eroslife.co.za, for booking details.
