I was thinking about Hard Sex and Fire Sex.
They’re not the same thing.
Fire sex is my entire body, my eyes, my mouth, my throat, my voice, my heart, my belly, my Lingam, my pelvis, my legs.
It may be hard, and deep and fast.
And it can be slow.
It’s an expression of intention.
It’s an expression of opening, of masks dropping, burning away.
Of stories confined to the flames.
Of armour melting.
It’s an expression of surrender.
It’s an expression of how much we’ll allow ourselves to be revealed, how much we’re we’re willing to let go.
It’s how much we’ll show, how open we can be.
For in the Fire of passion there’s no holding back.
There are no secrets, nothing left uncovered.
In the Fire, in my eyes, if something remains hidden, you’ll see it, you’ll know.
In the Fire, if my Heart remains closed, you’ll feel it, you’ll know.
Fire Sex is a commitment.
To presence, to love, to passion.
It’s a commitment to body, to heart, to mind, to spirit.
To myself, to you.
There’s no lukewarm, there’s nothing that’s tepid.
There are flames that will take us to our essence.
There’s no dipping a toe into the water.
There’s a dive into the feeling, into the sensation.
It starts slowly, this fire.
It starts with our eyes, and our breath.
It starts with opening hearts, opening voice.
It starts within us.
My fire, your fire, becomes our fire.
It spreads to our bellies, to our sex.
It’s hard, it’s wet.
It’s opening.
It reaches from my Heart to my Lingam, into your Yoni, to your Heart.
It has a voice this fire, it has eyes that see past our skin, it’s the Fire of Feeling, the Fire of Knowing.
Fire Sex is whole-body sex.
It’s dancing, breathing, singing, growling, moaning, panting, roaring.
It’s consuming of all that holds us back.
It frees us, this fire.
It frees us to a primal place of oneness.
And when the fire slows, when it quietens, we are left spent, open, seen, felt.
We lie in peace, in tenderness.
We lie connected in intimacy.
We soften.
Our bodies re-form.
And the embers glow within us.
Until a breath brings them once more to flame…
