I was sitting at the airport in Doha on the way to Ireland, and I tried to get into my website to do some work.
It wasn’t happening, it was blocked for being an adult content website.
It made me realise how fortunate we are to have the openness around sexuality that we do, the access and the opportunity.
And then I realised how limited that freedom is for many of us.
In the past week here in Ireland, and when I’ve been here before, and in South Africa, and in emails from so many countries, people talk about how repressed we are sexually.
And we talk about all the sexual issues we have.
And we talk about how scary it is for us to come to a sexuality workshop, or to engage with a journey of healing and learning.
We’ve put sex in this place that’s separate from the rest of who we are. We’ve put it in a little box that we take out in very specific, often narrow contexts, use, and put it away again.
And so much of this is in the dark, literally and figuratively.
It’s like there’s a gap in our lives.
And there’s a gap in our bodies.
We have a body up to the top of our thighs, and then again above the waist.
There’s a dark place, that we refer to with funny words, that we allude to, that we hint at.
There’s so much about this dark place, so much about how it disconnects us.
So much about how it sucks so much us down into this black hole of inhibition, limitation, fear, judgement, and frustration.
It’s not just a hole in the body, it’s a hole in the heart.
There’s something else in this black hole.
It’s the space of possibility.
It’s the space where we can free ourselves to be more whole.
It’s the hole of whole, I couldn’t resist that one.
We free ourselves by venturing into this space, into our bodies, into the base of our bodies.
We connect this with our hearts, our throats, our bellies.
We find ourselves in this hole, in the darkness.
We thank, in time, we thank the darkness for calling to us, for showing us, not only the shadow of the darkness, but how the darkness is the place we begin to see the light.
It’s only in the contrast that we see it all.
We free ourselves in the body.
In the base of the body, in this dark cave, are treasures.
Treasure that are almost blinding in their magnificence.
Treasures that are subtle in their power.
And it’s only when we enter this cave that we begin to discover these.
We enter the cave through sensation, through touch, through breath.
We enter the cave through awareness.
We enter the cave when we make a choice to become explorers, adventurers, discoverers, of an inner world that is limitless in its gifts.
The freedom in this cave is a freedom from so many patterns, conditioning and beliefs.
Sometimes that of generations.
It’s a freedom from the fear of pleasure, and we do fear our pleasure, for the power it has.
It’s a freedom from repression, guilt, shame, you know the litany of what sits there.
It’s a freedom to connection and intimacy.
It’s a freedom to connect with our hearts.
It’s a freedom to experience the awareness of Spirit.
It’s a freedom to love.
This black hole is the space of limitless possibility, as everything exists in the darkness.
I invite you to join me this weekend in Wicklow, Ireland as we journey into the hole of whole.
We are sharing 3 workshops, experiences where healing, pleasure, intimacy, sexual energy, awareness, all come together.
Whether you’re in a relationship or not, these workshops and experiences will expand your pleasure, enhance your intimacy, teach you amazing skills and open new possibilities of sensation, of feeling and of sexual energy.
As well as the workshops there are still a few spaces for private sessions as well.
Message Gabi to book, gabi.rebreanu@gmail.com, 00353 87 222 7081
Expanded Energy Orgasm
Fri 7 July, 7 pm
The Soul Sanctuary, Wicklow
Expanded Energy Orgasm is the practice of being orgasmic, having full-body orgasms, directly experiencing our sexual energy and dropping deeply into pleasure.
An Expanded Energy Orgasm can last for over 2 hrs.
You’ll learn the philosophy and practice, how to do this for yourself, for a man and for a woman.
This workshop includes a full Yoni Anatomy lesson, including the G-Spot, A-Spot, P-Spot, K-Spot and more.
Conscious Sensual Massage
Sat 8 July, 10 am
This is a practical experience of full-body massage as an expression of the heart.
It’s a creative way of touching based on connection and intimacy.
It’s touch as a meditation.
This experience is an exploration of sensation, of the limitless ways to touch.
It’s healing and relaxing, exciting and just so beautiful.
You’ll learn Bliss-Body Massage, The Art of Sensual Touch and Body-to Body Massage for healing and pleasure.
Taoist Sexual Healing Massage
Sun 9 July, 10 am
Taoist Sexual Healing Massage is one of the most beautiful and powerful expressions of touch and sexual energy.
One of the pillars of Taoist sexuality is using our sexual energy, which is our life force, for health and longevity.
That’s what the massage does, it balances our entire energy system every time you receive it.
It keeps the energy in the body, allowing us to use it for health, for creativity and for meditation, for access to higher states of energy and consciousness.
