As strong, as powerful, as much of a fire there is in your G-Spot, it’s also delicate, tender, soft.
The focus of this is healing and pleasure.
For healing, and for the pleasure to awaken, for the fire to burn high, there needs to be softness, there needs to be gentleness, there needs to be love.
There needs to be a whisper.
There needs to be a conversation.
There needs to be a pause to listen.
So much of sexuality, in the way many people express it, friction sex, porn sex, achievement sex, is done to women.
It’s not a conversation, it’s a monologue.
The hard and fast, the performance, is, in these terms, a demand, that your body responds in this way, does this, does that, achieves this.
And something interesting happens.
I’ve seen this often, it’s also a great movie scene, when we speak to a foreigner who doesn’t understand us, we speak louder, thinking that’ll make a difference.
We do the same to the G-Spot.
More, harder, faster.
I’ll share something with you.
This delicate, this amazing place, this wonder-full structure, in your body, wakes up with a whisper.
She responds to a greeting that is slow and soft.
A greeting that’s offered with love.
There’s a desire within your G-Spot, a desire to express herself, in pleasure, in energy.
And in fire, such fire, such passion.
And it begins with a whisper.
The whisper opens the portal.
The whisper is an offering, an invitation.
The whisper is the sun, the rain, that opens the flower.
The whisper is where she can be met.
The whisper requires time, patience.
It’s a nurturing, nourishing conversation.
It needs listening as well. And we listen with a pause. Stopping to feel what’s under your fingers. Listening to the pulsation, listening to the throbbing, listening to the tingling.
There’s a language here, the language of the body, of the Yoni, of your G-Spot, a language to be learned.
It’s a language of subtlety and nuance.
It’s a language that may not be the same every day, it happens in the context of the body, of the heart, of the stars.
Taking time for awakening, opening.
Time for release.
Time for pleasure.
Time to be present, such a deep element of this conversation.
She responds to presence, she feels it.
Because so much of the way she’s been touched has not been conscious.
She responds to the space opening for her to expand into, in her time.
Because so much has been forced, rushed that she closed, contracted, withdrew.
Whisper by whisper, the caress of allowing, she opens, fills, allows herself to come to fullness.
And the fullness is limitless.
The sensation, the feeling, the emotion, the energy, has an ever-expanding, ever-deepening, edge.
A whisper, that’s the power.
Soft, slow, intimate.
Tender.
Present.
Loving.
The space of limitless possibility.
If you’d like to explore, learn, experience
Please message or email me, jonti@eroslife.co.za.
