I’m putting this in the context of a Yoni Massage, and it’s such an important aspect of touch, of massage, of sensuality and pleasure.
I’ve been doing, teaching and developing massage for over 20 years, Conscious Sensual Massage, Erotic Massage, Taoist Sexual Energy Massage, Yoni Massage, Lingam Massage, Sexual Healing Massage, Anal Massage, Kashmiri Massage, Sensual Bondage Massage and more…
There is something so important in all of these, both for healing and pleasure.
Pause.
Pause in your touch.
Pause in your caress.
Pause.
Rest your hand, your fingers, your mouth, your body.
Energy moves in the pause.
Release is in the pause.
Letting go is in the pause.
Relaxation is in the pause.
The body softens in the pause.
The body opens in the pause.
The heart, the heart, connects, listens, hears, in the pause.
The pause is a breath, a sigh, a moment between one wave and the next, between one sensation and the next.
The pause is the space between the layers that drop us deeper into ourselves.
The pause is the stillness that gives birth to the next touch.
The pause is where I can drop from the mind into the body of knowing.
Wherever you’re touching, outer lips, clitoris, inside her Yoni, deep around her cervix.
Pause.
Breathe.
Whether it’s an experience of healing, of pleasure, and sometimes they’re the same.
Pause.
Wherever you’re touching, caressing on the body.
Kissing, licking, sucking, even, especially during penetration.
Constant touch, constant stimulation, is busyness, doing.
The pause is being.
Still.
And in the stillness we connect, deep, deep, deeper.
In the stillness we become aware of what’s present in the body, the sensation, the feeling, the emotion.
In the stillness there’s a guide, your body showing me where to touch, where to move. Your body presents itself, moves sometimes with subtlety, where she wants the touch.
In the stillness is where our hearts talk, beyond the mind, beyond thoughts.
We’ve been conditioned to the idea that there needs to be constant stimulation, rubbing, stroking. And so much of what we do is actually desensitizing.
It’s about friction, nothing else.
Breathe in the pause, and the breath drops us deeper into our bodies, deeper into the sensitivity.
There’s a settling in this breath, a settling in the pause.
A settling in the body, the sensation, the feeling, the energy.
And in the settling, the body softens to go deeper.
The pause is the spiritual moment.
The pause is where we feel the pulsation beneath the skin.
The pause draws us into each other. Often in movement there is giver and receiver. In stillness there is one.
The Deep Yoni Pause.
Mystery.
Intimacy.
Healing.
Pleasure.
Possibility.
