Cliteracy is being clitorally literate, whether it’s yours, or someone else’s, that you have the honour of touching, caressing, stroking, licking…
Cliteracy is knowing the full anatomy of this beautiful organ, which has only quite recently been fully mapped, and continues to be discovered.
Cliteracy is knowing how this pearl of pleasure likes to be touched, beyond the conditioned, patterned way we do.
Cliteracy is an exploration of sensation, of feeling, of energy.
A discovery of a world of possibility, that changes constantly.
We’ve made, through the belief we have, the way we touch, cliteracy a very narrow experience.
We’ve limited the pleasure possible into but one expression, one goal, one channel.
When, in the world of cliteracy, there are so many delicious, subtle and intense experiences to be had.
The first thing we’ve done is connected the clit to orgasm, which of course it is.
In this we’ve created a pattern in the body, ours and our lover’s, of how to get there, how to make that happen.
The way we’ve done this is a particular stimulation, hard, fast, harder, faster, more and more intense.
Until the explosion.
And the more we do it in that way, the more it becomes what the body knows.
Now that’s important because we work in patterns, and the more we do it in that way, the deeper the pattern becomes.
And when something different comes along, we don’t always feel a lot.
Why does that matter?
Because…
As much as your clit is a pathway to orgasm, it’s also a pathway of pleasure, of myriad sensations and feelings.
Some of which are really slow, gentle and subtle. And when we’re used to, deeply conditioned, to one kind of touch, it creates a numbness to the more subtle.
Because…
As wonderful as orgasms are, they’re not all there is.
Because…
The more we make our sexual experiences solely about orgasm, the more we move into the realm of performance and pressure.
Which is incredibly limiting.
Cliteracy is the exploration and discovery of ways of touching that are probably limitless.
Cliteracy is learning the science of the body, of energy, of sensation, and then becoming an artist.
Cliteracy is moving from robotic stimulation, the same every time, to an expression that’s about richness, tempo, rhythm, pace, volume, colour, stillness and more.
Cliteracy is about the body, the touch, in a deeper way, becoming an experience of such presence, such wonder, that it becomes sacred.
Cliteracy is about coming to see that your hands, your mouth, your body, the touch, can have such a wide range of expression, that can give such a wide range of sensations, as to be literally, mind-blowing.
Cliteracy is knowing that every woman is different, every day, and that the pathway we generally take is simply one of many.
And the more narrow our vision is, the less aware we become of what else there is.
The pattern we have has isolated the clit from the rest of the body, from deeper arousal and pleasure, and kept us limited even in the experience of orgasm.
Doing, and teaching, Yoni Massage for 30 yrs, spending time with so many women in intimate space, we come to see how the clit is a part of the body filled with wonder and mystery, with much to be discovered.
Listening to the conversations, listening to the desires, listening to the body.
Listening to the connection between the clit and the heart.
Listening to how the energy in the body.
Learning how important it is, how much it means, deep inside, when a lover becomes more cliterate.
And how wide the field of cliteracy really is.
Watch out for the Cliteracy Masterclass coming soon, drop me an email for more info, jonti@eroslife.co.za.
In the meantime, come and learn, come and experience, there is so much pleasure for us to have, to share.
I invite you…
