As important as healing is, and of course it is, we’ve become obsessed, even addicted to healing.
Which means we’ve become obsessed with problems, fixing, with needing to be fixed.
And many of the healing models we have keep us in that loop, going from one modality to the next.
More and more we see the power of a shift to growth, to possibility.
And to the relationship we have, with ourselves, with our bodies, our hearts, our minds, our thoughts, our sexuality.
Most of the journeys I share with people begin there, sexuality.
Sensuality, eroticism, relationship, love, pleasure.
Then they become, they always were, journeys of life.
Because our sexuality is not separate.
It’s not this little, unfortunately for many of us it is little, box that we take out and use in very specific circumstances and contexts, then put away again.
Our sensuality is life.
It’s our life-force, our vitality.
It’s also our creativity.
And it’s life.
So many of our sexual patterns are our life patterns, and so much of what happens in our sexuality is what happens in our life.
And it’s all about the relationship.
In bringing the relationship to awareness, learning about the relationship, exploring the relationship with our sexuality, we come to see how we express ourselves.
The way we learn about the relationship is through the experience of ourselves.
And in this experience, the healing happens.
It’s not something we do.
It’s not something that someone does to us.
It’s something that happens.
For so many of us the relationship we have with our bodies, with our genitals, with our pleasure, is one of guilt, shame, disconnect and judgement.
It’s expressed in inhibition, embarrassment, suppression, separation.
As we expand this relationship, as we connect with these beautiful, powerful, aspects of ourselves, we bring these to light, to awareness.
We bring them, we bring ourselves, we bring our sexuality into permission, freedom and possibility.
The healing is in the relationship.
Erection issues, early ejaculation, and more, are not diseases, they’re not pathologies.
For men, as the relationship with our Lingams, with our hearts, with our sexual energy opens.
As the relationship with who we are as sexual beings becomes clearer, it’s amazing to see how these change.
How our obsession with porn lessens.
How our hearts open, in so many ways, and how our sexuality and life merge more.
Not having orgasms, painful sex, not having internal orgasms and more are not diseases, not labels of pathology.
They’re a result of the relationship with our Yonis, with our eroticism.
As the relationship of sexual power emerges into being, as we claim permission and freedom, it’s amazing to see how much changes.
The deepening, expanding, softening relationship that allows us to discover and explore our sensuality and pleasure becomes the space of healing.
Then it becomes the space of growth, of expansion.
It becomes the space of life.
It becomes a pathway that shows us the way to the higher experiences.
It’s in this relationship that the connection between sexuality and spirituality emerges.
It’s in this relationship that the power of sexual energy can be felt, lived.
And it’s in this relationship that the keys to so much of what we seek in life, in love, are to be found.
This is what I offer to you, the relationship with ourselves.
Through experience, through practice, through our bodies, minds and hearts.
I invite you…
