Next week in Johannesburg, the following week in Cape Town, we’re sharing a workshop that we’ve called Tantric Intimacy, Connection and Sexual Energy.
There’s something so important in this workshop that can change our sexual experiences, deeply and simply.
It can also have an impact on our relationships that will open space and possibility.
It’s connection.
I’ve been thinking about this and this morning something emerged.
The Field.
The Field of Sensation, Pleasure and Surrender.
The Field of Intimacy.
The Field that’s within us, between us, around us.
The field arises from the connection.
It’s a resonance between us
It opens the experience and opens us to the experience.
It opens me, it opens you.
It opens us to each other.
It opens our bodies and our hearts.
It opens our energy.
It opens a flow between us.
It’s a field of awareness, a field of presence.
When we spend time connecting, we create this field.
It arises within us, around us.
From the connection.
It slows us down.
It brings us into presence.
It brings us into the space as lovers.
Wherever we are, the field becomes the temple where we share ourselves.
We often think of the temple as a construction, a fixed edifice, with all its attachments.
This becomes a temple that is within us, it’s always there.
And in the connection, the temple surrounds us.
Taking the time to connect brings a richness to our pleasure.
To our touch, our caress, our kiss.
Being in the field, the natural sensuality of the body flows.
There is space for our sexual energy to dance, for our passion to burn, for our tenderness to settle like a cover of gentleness upon us.
The pleasure wisdom of the body arises.
Feeling, sensation, deepens, expands.
Taking the time to connect drops us out of patterns and performance.
Taking the time to connect allows us to feel what’s present, alive, awake, within us now.
Taking the time to connect gives arousal and desire time and space to move.
Taking the time to connect allows us to communicate.
Taking the time to connect allows us to relax into feeling.
Taking the time to connect allows us to breathe into our bodies, into our experience.
Taking the time to connect opens our hearts.
We’re always looking for something, we’re looking for the tip, the technique, the secret, the formula, that will change our pleasure.
We’re looking for the magic wand, the fairy dust, the incantation.
I talk so much about how it doesn’t work like that.
And yet, here we are, one thing that will change so much in our pleasure, in our relationships.
Learning to connect, learning about eyes, breath, words, touch, movement, energy, has such power.
Practicing this, experiencing this, creating the field.
Becomes the field of possibility.
