The Way We Make Love Is The Way We Live
The way we make love is the way we live our lives.
If sex is all about the goal, the orgasm, if it’s all about chasing that, making it happen, so life will be like that.
If sex is about taking.
If sex is about using.
If sex is about withholds.
If sex is based in fear and judgment and shame.
If sex is only about release.
If sex is about performance.
If sex is about contraction
Life in this way is never present.
Life in this way will never have enough.
Life in this way will never have time to breathe, to savor the moment.
Life in this way will never have the time to appreciate, appreciate so many things, appreciate our bodies, our sense, our feelings, our energy, our world, our connection to the world.
Life in this way will never be about the heart.
Life in this way will always be on the surface.
Life in this way will never be about intimacy.
If sex is an expression of love, of intimacy, of connection.
If sex is an expression of energy.
If sex is an expression of creativity.
If sex is a prayer.
If sex is an exploration.
If sex is play and laughter.
If sex is expansion.
If sex takes the time to feel.
If sex is an endless exploration.
Life is different.
Life is filled with breath, with the pause to breathe, the pause to look around us, see the world, see those in the world, really see them, really feel.
Life in this way is grateful.
Life in this way is present, with nowhere else to be but here, right here.
Life in this way is filled with possibility.
Life in this way is the coming to authenticity of all that we are, allowing every aspect of ourselves a voice.
Life in this way is a flow, a rhythm, tides, waves, a dance with the cycles of living.
Life in this way takes us within, to come out even more.
Life in this way holds its hand out to us in invitation.
Life in this way sees the divine in pleasure.
In sex, Conscious Sex, all that we are is reflected, expressed, experienced.
There is freedom to be, to feel, to laugh, to cry, to howl, to growl.
And to be in deep silence so that we may feel the pulsation of life.
There is space.
There is acceptance of who we are, of our journey.
There is this moment.
There is knowing that we arise from the same consciousness, life expressing itself as us, through us, in the way that we are.
This is making love.
This is making love with life.