The Yoni and Lingam Meditation of Gazing
Yoni or Lingam Meditation of Gazing is looking with, through, the eyes of your heart.
It’s a meditation on loving, accepting, acknowledging, in the giving and in the receiving.
It’s a meditation on presence, sexual presence, heart presence, body presence.
It’s a meditation where we bring our heart into our gaze, where the vision within the vision, is one of love.
It’s a meditation where we open ourselves to receive, to be seen.
There is deep healing in the giving, deep healing in the receiving. Healing through being rather than doing.
It’s a meditation of stillness.
It’s a meditation of intimacy.
It’s a meditation of dropping into ourselves, of meeting, of being met, in the quiet of being.
It’s a meditation where there is no time other than the moment, the breath.
It’s a meditation of awareness in the vast space beyond thought.
It begins by creating a space, warm, a sanctuary, with whatever elements are important to you.
Sit opposite your lover.
Breathe, breathe into your heart.
Drop into your heart, feel the texture, the space of your heart.
Bring the energy of your heart to your eyes, that what you see, you see with your heart. This makes your gaze palpable, gives it energy.
Bring your eyes to the eyes of your lover.
Allow yourself to be seen as you look into their eyes.
Lie your partner down, supported as they need to be to be comfortable.
Sit between their legs, comfortable as you need to be.
Rest your eyes on their heart centre, in the middle of their chest.
Slowly travel your eyes down their body to their Yoni or Lingam.
And see with your eyes, with your heart.
Look at every fold, every rise, every curve, every crease. Travel your eyes over the landscape of their genitals. Touch them with your eyes, caress everything that you see.
Breathe into presence.
Breathe into your eyes, into your heart, breathe into their body.
See how their Yoni or Lingam and Heart are connected.
See how their skin is continuous throughout their body.
Look into your lover, into their sex, through their sex to the Divine Sex of their body.
Lingam of Life, Yoni of Life.
As you lie back to receive, open yourself.
Open your heart, open your body.
Feel into whatever arises, feeling, sensation, emotion.
Present in your body.
Allow yourself the gift of receiving, of being seen.
You offer your body, your beauty to your lover, as they offer their gaze to you.
Allow yourself tears, arousal, shame, openness, everything that’s there. Breathe into it.
Breathe into wanting to close and hide.
Breathe into wanting to open so they can see your soul.
Breathe into your Yoni, into your Lingam.
Breathe into becoming hard, becoming wet.
Breathe into wherever it takes you.
There will be a time where this is complete for now.
Withdraw your gaze slowly, as you would your touch.
Come back to your heart, to your body.
Ask your partner what they need, maybe to be held, maybe to be caressed, maybe to be pleasured, maybe to make love, maybe to lie together, maybe to talk…