On the weekend I gave a talk at a project I’m involved with, The Midlife/Menopause Masterclass.
It’s an amazing experience, with an amazing team.
It brought to awareness some things I’ve been thinking about for a while.
So much of the way Neo-Tantra, Tantric workshops are portrayed is pretty much the same.
Beautiful young women in flowing hippie clothes, lots of skin, man-buns, flat bellies…
Beautiful jungle/ocean settings…
It’s beautiful, it makes us want to…
And there’s something else that’s so important to know.
This path is for everyone.
I’m 60, I have no idea how I got to this age, and yet here I am.
With over 30 yrs of experience.
I work with people of all ages, including, and this is really important, a lot of older people.
I don’t know what older is in terms of age, I wouldn’t define it.
The point is that this journey is for everyone.
For every age, for every body, and I mean that in the physical sense.
For all of us.
Whether you’re coming to this looking for healing, and many ‘older’ people are just beginning a sexual journey. With a lifetime of sexual stuff, hurts, blockages, insecurities, inhibitions, guilts, shame, embarrassments, withholds…
Whether you’re looking to learn, to explore, to experience, to grow…
Whether, and this is so interesting, how many ‘older’ people are experiencing sexual awakenings…
Whether you realize there’s more to this thing called sex, and pleasure…
Whether you’ve done the same thing over and over enough times…
Whether you’re on your own, whether you’re in a relationship of whatever description.
This journey is for everyone.
And it’s never too late.
And regardless of what you see on the internet, the ‘perfect’, that’s small part of it, there’s a place, there’s a way for you.
There’s a joy, a freedom.
There’s the learning of yourself, emotionally, physically, sensually, erotically, spiritually.
There’s a way of learning about your body, your pleasure, that works for you, not what anyone else can do, how they can do it.
It’s not about a yoga body, a six-pack.
It’s about you being comfortable with yourself, and coming home to yourself.
In all your delicious erotic beauty.
And it’s never too late.
For so many of us we’ve been who others need us to be, want us to be.
We’ve filled so many roles.
We’ve done so much for others.
And often we’ve put ourselves aside for this, suppressed ourselves, given ourselves away, even forgot who we are.
Now it’s your time.
And it’s never too late.
In your sensuality, in your sexuality, in your eroticism, is so much of who you are.
So much of your power, so much of your creativity, so much of your vitality.
And your sexual energy holds the key to so many aspects of health, of well-being, of fulfillment, of awareness, of presence, of life.
It holds the space of so much of the joy of life, the pleasure of being alive.
It’s your time.
It’s not too late.
It’s now.
And I invite you…
