I’ve been doing and teaching Yoni Massage for over 20 years.
In this time I’ve developed many different experiences.
Some are focused on healing, some on pleasure, some on energy, some on worship.
Sometimes those all come together in one experience, it’s never just one thing.
The possibilities of this experience of Yoni Massage are limitless, and if we’re open to that we’ll keep discovering more.
Making Clitoral Love is an element of Yoni Massage that focuses on the pearl of oceanic sensation.
And Making Love, Clitoral Love, is a beautiful expression of sensation, of feeling, of connection, of intimacy, of energy, of tenderness, of presence and of love.
It’s about Making Love with her Clitoris.
And if we think about that phrase, Making Love, the way we express that is important.
For many of us, men and women, the clitoris is the source of orgasm. That’s what we see.
And that’s what we do.
We rub, hard, harder, faster.
We.buid up sensation, we cause friction, until there’s a contractive explosion.
Making Clitoral Love is different.
It’s slow, it’s tender, it’s present.
It’s bring my heart into my fingertips, and touching you with love.
Making Love doesn’t have a goal, it’s not a performance.
It’s touching you with the gentleness and tenderness of my heart.
It’s touching you with the awareness of the depth, the heights, of what you can feel.
There’s a subtlety in this touch.
There’s an awareness in this touch.
It’s a conversation, that requires presence from us.
It requires stillness, an inner stillness to hear, to listen.
It’s a dance that has a rhythm that changes all the time.
It’s an art, and your body, your clitoris, is the canvas.
It’s an expression of the poetry of pleasure.
It takes us out of the pattern, out of the ending.
And when we think about the way most of us have sex, we have sex for the ending.
This is Making Love.
Waves of sensation that move through the body.
Waves of feeling that move through the body.
Waves that connect you heart and your clitoris on this expression of love.
It’s a breath, a sigh, a roll of the hips that moves from your belly to the tips of your fingers, to your toes, to your lips.
It takes presence to make love to your clitoris, not to go into the pattern of hard, harder, fast, faster.
Not to want to ‘make you come’, but to be in pleasure.
To touch you in a way that my fingertips feel every pulsation, every throb.
To touch you in a way that explores what we think is small, is the universe.
Making Clitoral Love takes us out into the ocean of possibility.
The ocean of pleasure, of energy, of sensation, of intimacy.
The ocean that’s always changing, that’s calling your heart, calling the moment of connection, calling your fingertips to caress her pearl in it’s endless beauty.
