I love women.
I love loving women.
There are many elements in loving a woman, one of them is loving loving a woman.
Loving to love her.
Loving to honour her.
Loving to revere her.
These are my hands.
For over 30 years they’ve been doing and teaching massage in many different ways.
For the past 20 years they’ve specialized in sensual massage, sexual massage, pleasure massage, sexual energy massage, Yoni Massage, Lingam massage, sexual healing massage.
When we are able to move around again one of the most important things we can do is be touched.
I talk about that one of the reasons I do what I do is that it allows me to express so much of myself in so many ways.
The same goes for learning.
I learn from teaching, from the sessions we share, which at the moment are all online, and the webinars we’ve been sharing.
The way we make love is the way we live our lives.
If sex is all about the goal, the orgasm, if it’s all about chasing that, making it happen, so life will be like that.
If sex is about taking.
If sex is about using.
If sex is about withholds.
If sex is based in fear and judgment and shame.
I was thinking about something I get asked a lot.
How do we have better sex?
It’s something so many people talk about, and it’s something so many programmes and courses offer.
What I was thinking about was this.
What is better sex?
And I realised that maybe the question we should be asking is how do we have different sex?
My journey into this world of what I came to call Conscious Sexuality began with massage.
There’s a beautiful journey of exploration that goes from curiosity to interest, interest to fascination, fascination to wonder, wonder to awe.
When we get to this, awe, we see the Divine in the body, in all that it can do, in the way it looks, smells, tastes, hears, sees, and feels.
A journey of discovery that takes us deeper and deeper, layers that reveal layers that reveal layers.
I know that many people are struggling, and I know that many relationships are taking strain.
I know that there is so much uncertainty, so much confusion
I know that there is so much fear.
I know that there is so much news, fake news, myths, misinformation, misunderstanding, theories, conspiracy theories.
I know that it’s hard to know what’s true.
I love women, I worship Yoni.
There is something I have learned about mystery.
There’s an inner knowing, an understanding that goes beyond words.
It has no limits.
There is an intimacy with mystery, with the mystery that draws you, and it’s different for each of us.
And when it draws you, when it reaches into you, into your body, into your heart, into your very soul, when it sings a song that something indefinable inside of you knows, you listen.
In Yoni I see beauty beyond words.
Everyone has gifts and talents, one of mine is touch.
These are my hands, and they are missing touching.
So much of my work, and my teaching is with touch.
I have been exploring, learning, teaching, giving, receiving, sharing touch for over 30 years.
In this time I have developed a deep and wonder-full appreciation of the body, that continues to grow.
Appreciation for your skin, for the texture, for the shape, for the energy, for your muscles, your bones, your joints, for the curves, the valleys, the planes, for what’s beneath your skin, for what you feel, inside and out.