Time For Pleasure

I had some interesting realisations the other day during a particularly beautiful massage about time…
The Heart of my Lingam

He hungers, my Lingam. He hungers for you…
Relentless Growth

When you choose Consciousness, when you choose Growth, really choose it, commit to its path, it becomes relentless…
Emotional Expansion

For a long time I struggled with the concept of negative and positive emotions…
Meaningful Sex

Over the years of working in the field of Conscious Sexuality I’ve heard many people say that they want sex to be meaningful…
My Tantric Quest

With Jonti I’ve learnt so many small, subtle ways of being with myself and getting comfortable with my sexuality…
Make a Life of Love

Our great disservice to love is that we’ve euphemistically limited the making of love to sex…
Making The After-Love Last

There’s so much said about foreplay, about the build-up to sex…
Thoughts on Healing

Over the past week I’ve sat in my studio and listened to stories of deep pain…
Sensual Connection & Healing – 18. The Gifts Of Love & Being Present

In this video Jonti talks about the gift of love and the gift of being present
Sensual Connection & Healing – 17. The Spiritual Being

In this video Jonti talks about connecting to your spiritual being
Prepare Yourself for Pleasure

Prepare yourself for pleasure…
Sensual Connection & Healing – 16. Light The Fire

In this video Jonti Talks about the techniques used to light the sensual fire.
Sensual Connection & Healing – 15. Being Selfish

In this video Jonti explains the importance and value of being selfish.
Heart Time

Heart Time is where your relationship happens…
Sensual Connection & Healing – 14. Chakra Alignment

In this video Jonti explains the technique used aligning the bodies Chakras or energy zones.
Sensual Connection & Healing – 13. The Sensual Vocabulary

In this video Jonti talks about the sensual vocabulary and how the words we choose to use affect our senses.
Sensual Connection & Healing – 12. Body Check-In

In this video Jonti guides us through the body check-in.
Sensual Connection & Healing – 11. Chest Breath

In this video Jonti guides us through the third exercise in the workshop which is the chest breath.
The Power of Pleasure

My lover is a woman of incredible sexual energy and power…
Sensual Connection & Healing – 10. Sensual Hands Dancing

In this video Jonti guides us through the second exercise in the workshop which is Sensual Hands Dancing.
The Missing Element of Love

Imagine if we’ve got something wrong about love…
Sensual Connection & Healing – 9. Frequency Of Emotions

In this video Jonti talks about thow every emotion has a unique frequency which you can learn to identify and manage appropriately.
Sensual Connection & Healing – 8. Patterns

In this video Jonti talks about the patterns and conditional, how they affect our lives and relationships and how to change them.
Sensual Connection & Healing – 7. Sensation Is The Doorway To Emotion

In this video Jonti talks about the relationship between sensation and emotion and how sensation is often gateway to connect with inner emotions.
Sensual Connection & Healing – 6. Heart Breath

In this video Jonti talks about the first exercise for connection – The Heart Breath.
Sensual Connection & Healing – 5. Create The Space

In this video Jonti talks about the necessity to create space and acknowledge self
Sexual Healing, Life Healing

I’ve been doing healing work since 1993, mostly in the field of Conscious Sexuality…
Sensual Connection & Healing – 4. The Tools Of Change

Jonti Searll of ErosLife Talks about Sensual Connection & Healing in this self help workshop.
Sensual Connection & Healing -3. Do The Work

Jonti Searll of ErosLife Talks about Sensual Connection & Healing in this self help workshop.
Alive Yoni, Alive Lingam

I have observed something beautiful in my lover and in myself. Her Yoni is alive…
Sensual Connection & Healing – 2. Changing Relationships

Jonti Searll of ErosLife Talks about Sensual Connection & Healing in this self help workshop.
Sensual Connection & Healing -1. Its All About Us

Jonti Searll of ErosLife Talks about Sensual Connection & Healing in this self help workshop.
Love Makes Us

Every time, my love, that you take me into your body…
The Gift of Presence

One of the greatest gifts you can give yourself is presence, to be present in yourself. To be in your body, to be in your breath, to be in your emotions. To be with yourself. To feel. To …
Healing Your Relationship

I spend a great deal of time listening to, and helping with relationship issues and problems. Here’s something about relationships. If your relationship …
The Subtle Power of Stillness

There are many opportunities to have experiences of beauty and power that can have deep impact on our lives. One of these is our next Retreat in Mozambique, Making Love With Life.
Willingness to Heal

There are many opportunities to have experiences of beauty and power that can have deep impact on our lives. One of these is our next Retreat in Mozambique, Making Love With Life.
The Sexual Exchange of Energy

There are many opportunities to have experiences of beauty and power that can have deep impact on our lives. One of these is our next Retreat in Mozambique, Making Love With Life.