#sexualenergy Tag

A Tender Moment

I've had a lot of conversations with people in the past weeks. People in relationships and single people. Mostly people who are dealing with issues and problems, some struggling deeply, some hurting, and some people...

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Exploring Sexual Healing

There is much of our world that has taken what is sacred and made it dirty. There is much of our world that has taken what is light and made it dark. There is much of our...

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Exploring Healing

Many people come to a sexual journey looking for healing. There's a problem, an issue, a blockage,a pain, a hurt. That's where so many journeys begin. A lot of my work happens in this space,...

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We Need Touch

We need to touch, and we need to be touched. We need to hold, and we need to be held. We need to pleasure, and we need to be pleasured. These are needs. Not wants...

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The Love of Desire

I've shared with you that over the past year I haven't had a sexual encounter with another. For someone who has had a rich and full erotic life this has been really interesting. For someone...

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In Service to The Heart Touch

I have been doing and teaching massage and touch for almost 30 years. The past 20 plus years in the field of Conscious Sexuality, Kashmiri Pleasure Massage, Yoni Massage, Taoist Massage, Lingam Massage, Energy Massage,...

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The Conscious Cock

The Conscious C**k is an expression of the heart. It is a c**k of service, of worship. He has gone through and beyond performance. He has gone through and beyond need. He has gone...

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Devotion

More than a year ago my lover said to me that she thought devotion might be more important than love. We're not together anymore, and that line has stayed in my head. I've come back to it...

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Friction Sex, Energy Sex

Most people have what we call friction sex. It's friction, simply. One body part rubbing against another. It creates friction. (And as I write that something I've never quite seen before comes to me, I'll...

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A Crazy Little Thing Called Love

Nobody prepares us for love. And maybe nobody can. But we can go beyond the illusion. Beyond what Hollywood and the media portrays love to be. Beyond the myths we're fed about love. Because love is messy. It creates upheaval....

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The Silent Suffering

For so many people sex is the place of silent suffering. For so many men there is still such a stigma, such embarrassment, such shame about having a sexual problem. For most men this is...

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Sensual, Erotic, Tantric Poetry

You open your body and you take me into you. You open more and take me deeper and even deeper into you. Space within your Yoni seems to be without end, boundless, as you give yourself to...

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Yoni Healing Massage Pt 2

I begin with guiding her through 3 breaths, each one deeper and slower. One hand in her heart, the other on her yoni. Connecting. Slowing down. Breathing. Then 5 points on the pubic bone. ...

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Yoni Healing Massage

Yoni Healing Massage and Yoni Pleasure Massage are not always the same. Pleasure massage, with a heart touch, and an intention of Honouring, of giving, of connection, will always have a healing element. Healing Massage is...

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If I Were To…

If I were to write something today about sex and energy I would write that sex changes when it becomes an energy experience more than a physical one. That the physical, our bodies, our beautiful...

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My Massage Journey

My journey in healing began with massage and I have reconnected with this in such a beautiful and deep way. Bodywork, touchwork, have always been a big part of what I do, from the understanding...

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The State Of Orgasmic Potential

The body is a field of possibility. By being more in the body we can access that field. Orgasmic energy is a field of possibility. Be being more in that field we can be more in...

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Yoni/Lingam Holding Healing

Before the movement there is holding. Before the stroke there is stillness. Before the caress there is quiet. One of the most beautiful and powerful 'strokes' of massage is not moving at all. It's holding....

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Sacred Erotic Massage

There is a world of experience where the erotic is an expression of the sacred. There is a touch that comes from somewhere beyond the body, from somewhere else in my being. There is a...

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A New Massage

It's always been my intention, in the 30 years, I've been doing and teaching massage, touch and bodywork, to create beautiful experiences. In this, the exploration has been endless, and I've often said that the...

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Learning About The Fire

There are so many myths about sex. There are so many myths about sexuality. There are so many myths about desire. There are so many myths about what women want. There are so many myths about what men...

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The Slow Magic

There is magic in slow. There is such power in slow. Slow brings us into presence. All else drifts away naturally when we are present. There is no struggle in slow, there is surrender, to...

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A Self-Pleasuring Energy Experience

This is a self-pleasuring experience that will allow you to experience your sexual energy. When we can build that energy, that beautiful, powerful, vital sexual energy, when we can build it and then keep it...

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