#conscioussexuality Tag

The 4 Secrets of Sensation

As a sex educator and healer, a workshop facilitator and massage teacher there's a question I get asked lots, as I'm sure many of my colleagues do. How do we have better sex? Now what...

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The Love Sex Expo

I spent four days last week at The Love Sex Expo in Pretoria, South Africa. I gave 13 presentations and 8 massage demonstrations. I spoke to so many people at my stand where we were...

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Come Home

Come Home Come home. Come home to yourself. Come home to your body, to your heart. Come home to feeling, your feelings, your sensations,your emotions....

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A Crazy Little Thing Called Love

Nobody prepares us for love. And maybe nobody can. But we can go beyond the illusion. Beyond what Hollywood and the media portrays love to be. Beyond the myths we're fed about love. Because love is messy. It creates upheaval....

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The Silent Suffering

For so many people sex is the place of silent suffering. For so many men there is still such a stigma, such embarrassment, such shame about having a sexual problem. For most men this is...

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Sensual, Erotic, Tantric Poetry

You open your body and you take me into you. You open more and take me deeper and even deeper into you. Space within your Yoni seems to be without end, boundless, as you give yourself to...

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Yoni Healing Massage Pt 2

I begin with guiding her through 3 breaths, each one deeper and slower. One hand in her heart, the other on her yoni. Connecting. Slowing down. Breathing. Then 5 points on the pubic bone. ...

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Yoni Healing Massage

Yoni Healing Massage and Yoni Pleasure Massage are not always the same. Pleasure massage, with a heart touch, and an intention of Honouring, of giving, of connection, will always have a healing element. Healing Massage is...

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If I Were To…

If I were to write something today about sex and energy I would write that sex changes when it becomes an energy experience more than a physical one. That the physical, our bodies, our beautiful...

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My Massage Journey

My journey in healing began with massage and I have reconnected with this in such a beautiful and deep way. Bodywork, touchwork, have always been a big part of what I do, from the understanding...

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The State Of Orgasmic Potential

The body is a field of possibility. By being more in the body we can access that field. Orgasmic energy is a field of possibility. Be being more in that field we can be more in...

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Yoni/Lingam Holding Healing

Before the movement there is holding. Before the stroke there is stillness. Before the caress there is quiet. One of the most beautiful and powerful 'strokes' of massage is not moving at all. It's holding....

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Sacred Erotic Massage

There is a world of experience where the erotic is an expression of the sacred. There is a touch that comes from somewhere beyond the body, from somewhere else in my being. There is a...

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A New Massage

It's always been my intention, in the 30 years, I've been doing and teaching massage, touch and bodywork, to create beautiful experiences. In this, the exploration has been endless, and I've often said that the...

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Learning About The Fire

There are so many myths about sex. There are so many myths about sexuality. There are so many myths about desire. There are so many myths about what women want. There are so many myths about what men...

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The Slow Magic

There is magic in slow. There is such power in slow. Slow brings us into presence. All else drifts away naturally when we are present. There is no struggle in slow, there is surrender, to...

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A Self-Pleasuring Energy Experience

This is a self-pleasuring experience that will allow you to experience your sexual energy. When we can build that energy, that beautiful, powerful, vital sexual energy, when we can build it and then keep it...

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What Has Become Of Us?

There is something that I've been hearing so much lately in my work. 'I can't tell him that, it's going to hurt his ego.' Is this what we've become, us men. ...

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A Ritual of Offering

There is such power in ritual in a relationship. It's an experience of consciousness, of presence. In this space we come together with an intention. We come into intimacy, we come into our hearts, we come...

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Beyond Pleasure

There's a fascinating idea in Conscious Sexuality that allows us to look at sexuality differently, and opens up a world of possibility. It's about going beyond pleasure. ...

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The Meditation Of Touch

There is a touch that is slow, so slow. There is a touch that is gentle, so gentle. It comes from the heart, an energy that flows through your body into your hands so that your...

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We Remember The Sacred

There are not many women who have been fully sexually satisfied. Deeply fulfilled to the core of their being. Touched, soul touched, heart touched. Body replete. Given herself totally, utterly. Every level of her being open, exposed, safe, loved, respected,...

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Inside, Too Quickly

Many women have been penetrated too quickly, often way before their bodies are ready to have something inside. The impact of this is tension in the tissues of the yoni, often around and just inside...

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Healing The Body Slowly

One of the most important elements of what I teach is that we live in patterns and that most of our patterns are not conscious. We're not aware of them, we simply do what we...

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Yoni Disconnect

There are so many things that disconnect women from their sexuality, from their bodies, from their yoni's and from their pleasure....

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My Own Journey

Over the past months I've experienced a deep sadness. I've felt it in my body, in my being, in my energy, in my heart. ...

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This Place, Beyond

This experience is available to all of us. It can't really be described as our words limit our understanding. It can but be experienced. ...

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Stay In Your Body

Our body is an intelligence, a consciousness, an awareness. It's in the body and it is the body. To be with it, to experience it, to feel it, we need to learn to stay in...

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Yoni Healing

Yoni Healing is slow, so slow. It's gentle, so gentle. It's allowing, not making, not forcing, not rushing. It's allowing your body to release, to soften. To release the past. ...

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My Connected Male Body

The relationship we have, with our genitals is not conscious, at best it’s functional, and deeper than that it’s contractive, it’s fearful with comparison, with a level of performance, with a lack of information and...

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This Conscious Kiss

For so many of us kissing is a prelude, something we do that leads to something else. And for some people it’s something they have to do to get to the next step. Conscious Kissing is...

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Conscious Receiving

There's an element of touch that I don't think we're always aware of because we focus so much on the giving of touch. Receiving touch. Consciously Receiving your lover's touch. ...

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