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At a talk I gave last week on Conscious Sexuality someone asked a great question about sex in a relationship, how do you make it more conscious, what do you do? Earlier this week a...

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My Eroticism Went With Her

She left. And my eroticism went with her. It loved her. It loved the expression, all the ways it could express itself, the gentle, the tender, the fire and the beast. It loved the passion....

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Early Ejaculation and Receiving

I've been working with quite a few men recently who are dealing with the issue of early ejaculation. As part of the healing journey something really interesting has emerged with every one of them. ...

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Conversations With My Sexual Body

For the past 10 months my eroticism has been solo and inwards. For someone who teaches in sexuality this creates many fascinating possibilities. One of these has been the conversations I've had with my cock,...

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As In Sex, So In Life

For many of us sex is something very separate from the rest of our lives. Our sexuality is in a box that we take out in very specific circumstances, in very specific contexts, use it,...

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Sing The Song of Your Body

Sing the song of your body Sing the song of your life Sing your pain and your despair Sing your loneliness and loss Sing the tears you cry in the quiet of the night Sing the silent longing of your...

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Give Yourself A Gift

Give yourself a gift, the gift of yourself. All of yourself. Give yourself the gift of your life, of each moment, each connection, each relationship, each experience, each feeling, each sensation...

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The Healing of Being

There's a beautiful concept of healing that comes from a state of being rather than a doing. In the tradition of Tantra Yoga there's an understanding that we are whole. The experiences that we've had,...

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A Sexual Ritual of Acknowledging

I love ritual in sex, in pleasure. Ritual connects us to an intention, to a deeper energy and consciousness. Ritual brings us into being more present, more aware, more connected to ourselves, to the moment to...

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The Joy Of Sex

I was thinking about joy and celebration. I was thinking about the joy and celebration of sex, of lovemaking. And I was thinking that we don't often experience that. ...

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Sacred Sex

I love sex. All of it. I love the touch, the taste, the smell, the sounds, the sensations, the feelings, the breath, the energy, the orgasms. All of it. I love bodies. The skin, the...

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Male Sexual Control

An important piece of this work came to me today. There are so many men who struggle with early ejaculation, and are silent about it. There is still shame, despair and embarrassment about it. It...

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Choose Pleasure

For so many of us living in a place of pain is easier, simply because we know it. We know it well. It gives us comfort, it gives us safety. When we choose to live...

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Men Going Deeper

Last week in my practice I had two incredibly deep experiences. Both of these are connected to a different story of our sexuality...

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Men’s Story

As I look at a different story for our sexuality I turn to an experience I had recently and what it brought to mind...

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Makers of Love

During some deep discuss with me lover we've spoken about not knowing what certain words mean to us anymore. A good example of this is ‘spirituality’...

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Touch

'Often the hands will solve a mystery that the intellect has struggled with in vain'. C G Jung...

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