Stay Connected

I love you, and I’m angry, or hurt, or frustrated or whatever, and I want to stay connected and work this out…
Sex and Sensuality as a Practice

It came out of a discussion of the purpose of sex, why we have sex, and the possibilities it has for us…
The Unspoken Conversation

I went to a Constellation workshop last week. I understand the work to be about family patterns that we carry…
SexTalk – Sex & Business

What can you learn from sex that will expand your business? Jonti, Tamar and their special guest, York have tips that will pleasantly surprise you and make you look at your work differently.
The Pleasure Communication

Touching, kissing, caressing, sensual experience, sex are all a communication…
The Heart Revolution

Generally we live with a Porn Model of sex…
SexTalk – Fantasy and Role-Playing

The costumes, the masks that help you drop the mask and become more authentic.
The Gifts of Loving

She asked me what I get from loving her…
Why a Sex Coach?

This is the age of the Coach…
SexTalk – How do millennials view sex?

Jonti chats to Eric Jansen and Candice Coulsen about how millennials view sex. Is Millennial sex any different from how Gen X perceives it? Are young people more care-free and exploratory when it comes to intimacy.
Healing by Adding

Many of us struggle to change things that cause us pain, that limit us…
Eargasms and Expectations

Let’s begin with an Eargasm…
SexTalk – Sex & Relationships in Kenya

A fascinating look into a society coming to terms with a changing world.
Our Sexual Story

I hear people’s stories, our stories. Our sexual stories…
G-Spot, oh G-Spot

G-Spot, oh G-Spot, wherefore art thou?
SexTalk – Dating & Relationship Tips

Should you take your partner shopping? Dating and relationship advice with Amy Searll – a father and daughter discussion.
Whose Orgasm Is It Anyway?

Who are you having orgasms for…
For Myself

I cannot live my life for you…
Openness

How would it be if you spoke openly about sex…
SexTalk – Black Women’s Pleasure in SA

How do black women in South Africa experience sex? Can you have the difficult conversations about sex and own your own pleasure? Are you willing to take the steps toward sexual freedom?
Deep Into My Body

On the inward journey we go deeper into ourselves…
SexTalk – Training for Pleasure

So you want to be an amazing lover, a sub or a dom? Training for pleasure… are you willing?
A Sensual and Erotic Life

At my workshop last week, Awakening the Erotic Spirit, there was a beautiful discussion about the word ‘Erotic’…
How To Be a Better Lover

Do you want to be a better lover?
The Power of Touch

Have you been touched with love, where you can feel your lover’s heart in their hands…
SexTalk – A Masterclass on Self-Pleasuring

May is Masturbation Month so the team presents a masterclass on self-pleasuring. How to have more pleasure from self-play, using your sexual energy for meditation and creativity, the power of breathing, edging, anatomy and more.
The Heart of The Healer

The past months have taken me deeper into myself than ever…
Sexual Healing, Life Healing

When we begin a journey of sexual healing we begin a journey of life healing, body healing, heart healing, spirit healing…
SexTalk – Erotic Exploration

What excites you? Are you ashamed of it? Do you allow it to emerge, or do you deny it? Jonti and the team delve into the world of erotic exploration.
Softly, Slowly, Deeply…

The world of male sexuality is fraught with myth, misinformation and misunderstanding…
Heart-Centered Sexuality

For a while I’ve been moving more into a heart space in my work and life…
Beautiful Massage

It’s long been my desire to create the most beautiful massage, touch experiences and workshops…
SexTalk – Sexual Healing, Conscious Kink, Pleasure Possibilities…

Help get Rayne to the World Pole Dancing Championship, female desire, and keeping relationships alive and exciting.
The Practice of Relationship

So many relationships end because of a lack of intimacy…
The Sexual Fire

There’s an analogy that I use which I call the Sexual Fire…
Let The Point of Contact be The Point of Consciousness

Contact. We touch…
SexTalk – Female Desire

Help get Rayne to the World Pole Dancing Championship, female desire, and keeping relationships alive and exciting.
Healing With Pleasure

We generally seek, look for and go for healing when we’re in pain…
Sexual Communication

Sexual and Sensual Communication is very difficult for many people…
SexTalk – Live Blow Job Workshop

Learning to be a good lover is a vital part of life, and a big part of that is sexual skills. Learn the art of giving a mind-blowing blow job, and how to make this an act of pleasure and power for the giver. These techniques will give your partner incredible pleasure, and might also change the way you view oral sex forever.
Holding Space

Who will hold space for your fire…
I See You

There is an important element in relationships, in love, of being seen…
This Man…

I sat in the radio studio last week talking to a man who has come out as bisexual…
The Way You Make Me Feel

There are many fascinating things to learn in touching…
SexTalk – Rope Bondage

It can be healing, it can be meditative, it can be creative and it can be so sexy and arousing… Jonti investigates the world of rope bondage.
SexTalk – Bisexuality

Bisexuality… a fascinating world of sexual and emotional choices.
The Touch Connection

Many couples come to see me in my practice complaining that they’re not having enough sex…
A Question of Experience

As a healer and facilitator I’m always looking to grow and expand…
Loving Men

I had a moment recently of intense sadness that brought me to tears…
SexTalk – Exploring Your Sexuality

Exploring your sexuality… your mind, your body, your heart, your fantasies, with others, same sex, kink, finding your pleasure being and setting them free.