This is a practical course for practitioners, teachers, healers, experiencers, teaching you the practices, the exercises to share with your clients in healing, connecting and expanding their pleasure possibilities. I have been working in the fields...
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I found something recently, and there might be something for you in what I've found. I have always loved what I do. When people talk about having a job I've never really thought of this...
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From the ends of your toes to the tips of your fingers to the top of your head. Your Divine Body. There is a lifetime in your body, a lifetime of sensation, a lifetime of...
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I was recently asked to teach a course on Yoni Massage for a group of practitioners. This filled me with excitement for a few reasons. The first is I love to teach, and I love to inspire...
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The sacred in me arises when I sit before you, when I look into your eyes. The sacred in me arises when I kneel before you. The sacred in me arises when I sit between your...
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The model I’ve created is about possibility, the limitless possibilities of intimacy, sensuality, connection and pleasure. I invite you to explore these possibilities on a delicious retreat of luxurious experience. Zebra’s Crossing Very Private Game Lodge in...
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A while ago after a deep massage exchange someone said that she feels high, trippy, spacey. Just looking at her I could see that she was in an expanded state of consciousness. There was a...
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I'm for the slow…. For in the slow we feel. In the slow we savour. In the slow is the subtle. In the slow is presence. In the slow is appreciation. In the slow is awareness....
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Slowly, she said to me, slowly. Rest the head of your Lingam at the opening of my Yoni. Be still, breathe. Feel her open, feel her begin to invite you in, to welcome you. This...
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I talk about making love with life. I talk about how when we hear the term 'making love' our thoughts go to our genitals, to sex. I talk about how making love happens in so...
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G-Spot Holding is a deep practice of healing and release. It's a practice of pleasure. It's a practice of feeling and sensation. It's a practice of intimacy and connection. It's a practice of energy. It's...
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Coffee this afternoon is special, with one of my favorite things, Panettone, so deliciously sensual. I am so glad we only get them for a short time in South Africa, at this time of the...
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Coffee this afternoon is fascinating. I'm sipping it slowly, savoring the taste, the aroma. I'm looking at the sky, the garden, the clouds. I love watching clouds. I'm listening to the birds, distant traffic. I've...
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We’ll talk about the erotic space, different aspects of being sensual, being erotic, what erotic presence is, how that deepens pleasure, how to stay in that energy, how to be more erotic in life. There...
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Coffee this afternoon is back home in Johannesburg. There's a rain shower, gentle rain, and I can see the sun shining in some parts of the sky, in the distance. The sound of the raindrops...
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Coffee this afternoon is back home in Johannesburg. There's a rain shower, gentle rain, and I can see the sun shining in some parts of the sky, in the distance. The sound of the raindrops...
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We'll talk about what Conscious Sexuality is. We'll talk about the patterns we live with, and the impact they have on our lives, relationships and pleasure. We'll talk about sexual and sensual healing, the path...
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On Saturday I was at The Oranjezicht Market in Cape Town. There was a moment. A moment of such deep sensuality that my heart swelled to having no edges that I could feel. I was...
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I've been thinking a lot, writing about love. I've been deeper into love in myself. And I've been thinking about making love. There is often a question asked about the difference between having sex and...
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I've been aware of an expanding expression of love. Seeds that were planted, some long ago, some more recently, coming into flower. Deepening my Heart Breath practice, sitting more in my heart in healing, space,...
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Over the past weeks some new practices have emerged in my work. There's been a mixing of massage and meditation, and a mouth massage, both of these have deepened healing and pleasure experiences enormously. And...
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There are many ways to heal, to learn, to grow and to experience. The path I've chosen is that of gentleness. In gentleness we soften, we open. We relax, we release. We let go. We...
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One of the most intriguing aspects of this journey of teaching is the learning that keeps coming. During a Water Flow Massage experience I had a beautiful opportunity to do this. I don’t often participate in...
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Last week I had coffee with my social media coach, Bronwynne. (By the way, she is fantastic, if you're looking for help with social media, I'll happily connect you.) I showed her what I'd written...
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There is such power, such possibility in being relaxed, deeply relaxed, in pleasure. The body opens, energy begins to flow. From our sexual centre to the heart, and higher, spreading through the body. A wave...
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This idea arose from a place of deep pleasure, from a place of intimacy with my body, from a place of conscious connection and awareness with my body. For so many of us the relationship we...
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There is one thing we all need at the moment. Need. All of us, wherever we are on the rainbow of life, in every way there can be. Need. One of the effects of the...
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We'll talk about sex and sensuality, what fulfillment really means, and how we can experience this. We'll talk about our bodies, we'll talk about our hearts, we'll talk about sexual energy, we'll talk about intimacy,...
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There is a really interesting aspect of being a good lover that we don't always connect with sex. Almost everyone who shares a healing and growth with me at some point says that they're amazed...
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Thursday Night’s Webinar, 1st Oct, is Free. It’s at 8pm, South African Time, GMT +2. We’ll talk about this, Sexual Curiosity, Interest, Fascination, Wonder, how to engage with them, how to use them, the impact on pleasure...
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There is something that I have intrinsically known that has come to conscious awareness. So many of our sexual issues are heart issues. We heal them in the heart. Yes they're in our bodies, in...
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There's something I teach which is so important when it comes to pleasure, to sexuality, to sensuality, to growth. It's also such an important element in relationships. There's a progression, a journey that starts with...
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Breast and Heart Massage is the space where healing, relaxation, release, nurturing, intimacy and arousal meet. Breasts are symbolic of nurturing, nourishing, this massage, brings that inwards, awakening the energy of nurturing herself, and allowing herself...
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Breast and Heart Massage is the space where healing, relaxation, acknowledgement, sensuality, arousal, love and nurturing meet. It's often an experience of deep emotion, bringing so much to awareness. For many women breasts are symbolic...
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I am in an incredible position, because of the work I do. I get to spend emotional time with men, vulnerable time with men. And one of the most beautiful, one of the most powerful,...
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The world massage has so many expressions. This is where my journey began, and continues to grow and expand. We'll talk about sensual, Erotic, Neo-Tantric, Yoni, Lingam, Taoist, Anal, Kashmiri, Sexual Energy, Breast Massage. The...
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The other day I was doing a clitoral massage. This was in the space of healing, of pleasure, of energy, of sensation. In the moment something came to awareness in an emotional rush, deeper than...
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Lingam Massage is a gift of pleasure for a man. It’s an expression of sexual energy that expands male pleasure and his experience of himself. The different expressions of Lingam Massage from the gentle, soft, slow Water...
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There is an art to this pleasure, to this honouring of a woman, to the mystery and power of her pleasure. Join me on this webinar as we explore the beginning of this beautiful experience....
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Greet your lover as an expression of The Goddess. Greet her with reverence, with humility. Approach her as you would the Divine in a place of prayer. Kneel before her. Be open to serve her,...
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I'd like to share some of my journey with you, what brought me to this point as an erotic massage therapist and teacher. I've been doing this for over 20 years and it's a journey...
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I begin with guiding her through 3 breaths, each one deeper and slower. One hand in her heart, the other on her yoni. Connecting. Slowing down. Breathing. Then 5 points on the pubic bone. ...
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Yoni Healing Massage and Yoni Pleasure Massage are not always the same. Pleasure massage, with a heart touch, and an intention of Honouring, of giving, of connection, will always have a healing element. Healing Massage is...
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Yoni Healing is slow, so slow. It's gentle, so gentle. It's allowing, not making, not forcing, not rushing. It's allowing your body to release, to soften. To release the past. ...
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