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Hard Is Not The Only Way

I started this piece in a way that I've started many similar pieces. I work with a lot of men who struggle with early ejaculation and erection problems.' I stopped, looked at the words, and some...

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Your Own Sexual Relationship

'I am coming to know and accept my Yoni. There's a conversation that's happening, a connection that I feel more and more.' It's a simple statement, and it means so much. The relationship many of us...

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The Power of Connection

So many of us are looking for deeper pleasure, for fulfilment. Some of us, many of us, think it’s in the techniques of sex, learning more, and that’s important. Particularly as we get very little education...

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Let’s Stop Measuring

We are a society obsessed with measuring. Everything we possibly can, we measure. And in the measure comes a judgment. There's a constant comparison in measurement, and a constant insecurity. There can be little fulfillment,...

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Beyond Orgasm, The Possibility

There are so many ways for us to make love. Not that we really make love anyway, for love is there always, waiting for us to reveal itself to us. And when we hear the phrase ‘making...

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The Risk of Pleasure

There is a great risk in deep pleasure, in allowing ourselves to go to that place. The place where we become one with another. The place where we become one with life. The place where...

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A Pleasure Practice

I was thinking about a Pleasure Practice. I was thinking that we have all kinds of practices, health practices, spiritual practices etc. But what about a Pleasure Practice, a Sexuality Practice, an Intimacy Practice, a...

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To Worship My Lover

I write a lot, I teach a lot about worship. Yoni Worship, Lingam worship. Touch and massage as a form of worship. Touch as a sacred expression. Worship of your lover, in pleasure, in breath,...

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