#sensualmassage Tag

Drop Into Your Body

Drop into your body. Drop deep, into the base, into the pelvis. On so many journeys, in so many teachings, it’s about moving up, moving away from our base. And it just may be that moving the other...

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Imagine That You Had a Lover

Imagine that you had a lover, and that lover wanted to explore your body, get to know your body, caress your body. Imagine that this lover wanted to find the ways and places you like...

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The Dance of Seduction

There is something so important in relationships, it's vital to the longevity of a relationship, to the excitement and intimacy of a relationship. Seduction. To keep seducing each other. Over and over again. Seduction is...

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Enter From Within

I learned something this week. Enter from within. It sounds paradoxical, it is, as is so much of life, when we really see it. Enter from within. It's expanding inside of me, showing more every...

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This Touch of Possibility

I was thinking about all the massage experiences I teach and do. Conscious Sensual Massage, a vast field of healing and pleasure, Taoist Sexual Energy Massage, Kashmiri Massage, Water Flow Massage, Yoni Massage in its...

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Three (Erotic) Things

Three things, just three things. And so much happens with these three things. They could be any 3 things, and today I chose these. Rope, a blindfold, a flogger. The strands of the flogger are made...

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One Journey, Thank You

We've shared a lot this year, you and I. Some in person, some on the other side of a screen, some reading what I write, some on my DVD's and programmes. I am grateful for...

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The Dance of the Heart

'My touch is the dance of my heart on your body.' I wrote this line and shared it in an image a few days ago, then I read it a few times. Earlier in the day...

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The Freedom of Sacred Saliva

Let's start with this. What makes saliva sacred? Nothing, other than it's an element of our Divine body, and as everything, every bodily fluid, is part of us, in this Divine body. And if we were more...

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Man to Man Kashmiri Massage

For a man to sit opposite another man and to look into his eyes is powerful. For a man to sit naked opposite another man is powerful. For a man to hold his hands out...

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Be Still and Know

I went to dancing on Saturday night, around the fire, with the wind and some rain. Sensual. And primal. Moments of just the music in my ears and my body moving, the earth beneath my...

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She Got Fire

She got fire. From deep in the earth. From the volcano that burns in the deep of the ocean. From the stars that give birth to worlds. She got fire. In her eyes, in her words,...

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What You Seek

The next thing is that we're going to create a space within us for something to happen. In this space, which is a space of intimacy with ourselves, a space of awareness. A space of...

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Out of Time Into Pleasure

There is a beautiful unfolding in the journey of teaching, which is the journey of learning. I talk, and teach, a lot about orgasms. I also talk, and teach, a lot, about how orgasms are...

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The Heart of Male Sexuality

We have, us men, these Hearts. We have this energy of connection. We have this space to hold you in. We have this fire to heat you in. We have this roar to appreciate you...

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Precious Tears

There have been a lot of tears this week. My tears, men's tears, women's tears. Tears of gratitude and celebration. Tears of hurt. Tears of what's been hidden, being revealed, and the lightness, the freedom...

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A Neck Nuzzle

I would like to share something with you that is so delicious, so simple. And like a lot of simple things in the world of sensuality there is such depth, such subtlety and such nuance...

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The Space of Male Pleasure Possibility

In many of the workshops and lessons and experiences I've been facilitating lately, and over all the time I've been teaching, I've seen something in many men. Regardless of what the workshop or experience is...

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The Penetration of Fire

There's an art of penetration that can deepen the experience incredibly for both partners. It's more about energy. About exploring sensation. About an intimacy, which is often lacking in friction sex. About the portal the energy...

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Sexual Awakening, Life Awakening

Recently I've been doing a lot of work with people, men and women, on sexual awakening. This isn't something new, I've been doing this for a long time, and over time the elements of this...

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Penetration of the Heart

The way most people have penetrative sex is what we call friction sex. That's exactly what it is, skin rubbing against skin. We generally do it harder and faster as the sensation builds to have...

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The Limitless Conversation of Touch

Touch is a language That goes deeper than words It's the language of the body That has a knowing That speaks to the heart To the places deep within us Learning to touch, to massage, is one of...

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Hey Man, Learn to Soften

I work a lot with men with 'performance' issues. And that's a big part of the problem. It's not a performance. It's not a race, a competition, an achievement. It's not something you have to...

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Intimacy Bypass

I was thinking about intimacy, sex, making love. I was contemplating a piece I thought I was ready to write called Foreplay of the Heart. That wasn't quite there, this was. Often, for many of...

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She’d Like You to Know

Over the past weeks, as over the years, I've had some conversations with women. These are women who are looking to heal, expand, change, improve their relationships. They'd like, love, want so much, to have...

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Heart – Centered Erotic Touch

The first thing I teach everyone I work with, the first thing we do on all the workshops and retreats, the first thing on all the webinars, is The Heart Connection. When I started teaching...

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Sexual Healing – A Free Talk, Cape Town

There is a model of sexual healing that frees us from having a problem, needing to be fixed, being broken. It’s a model of healing through pleasure, of opening to possibility. It’s a model of energy,...

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A Mini Sensual Retreat

An immersion into sensuality, intimacy, sexual energy, your body, your heart and the possibilities of pleasure. This is a fantastic time of year for exploring, learning and experiencing. I've created 4 experiences that will allow...

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A Mini Sensual Retreat

An immersion into sensuality, intimacy, sexual energy, your body, your heart and the possibilities of pleasure. This is a fantastic time of year for exploring, learning and experiencing. I've created 4 experiences that will allow...

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A Mini Sensual Retreat

An immersion into sensuality, intimacy, sexual energy, your body, your heart and the possibilities of pleasure. This is a fantastic time of year for exploring, learning and experiencing. I've created 4 experiences that will allow...

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A Mini Sensual Retreat

An immersion into sensuality, intimacy, sexual energy, your body, your heart and the possibilities of pleasure. This is a fantastic time of year for exploring, learning and experiencing. I've created 4 experiences that will allow...

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The Erotic Space – A Free Webinar

We’ll talk about the erotic space, different aspects of being sensual, being erotic, what erotic presence is, how that deepens pleasure, how to stay in that energy, how to be more erotic in life. There...

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Sexual Healing Massage

This is a deep and practical journey into touch, into breath, into sensation, into feeling, into energy, into sensuality, into pleasure and into awareness.  This is the work I do with people on healing and growth...

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Sensual Healing and Sensual Bliss

TUES 10th Nov Sensual Healing and Sensual Bliss Connecting with our bodies, with our hearts, being present in the body and feeling is vital on a healing journey. Being present in our body, connected to...

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Massage – A Free Webinar

The world massage has so many expressions. This is where my journey began, and continues to grow and expand. We'll talk about sensual, Erotic, Neo-Tantric, Yoni, Lingam, Taoist, Anal, Kashmiri, Sexual Energy, Breast Massage. The...

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The Dance of Yoni Massage

Look into her eyes. Breathe. Just breathe. There are no thoughts in this moment. There is the opening to love. Breathe into your heart. Just breathe. ...

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The Massage of Making Love

Can you touch this body as if you were making love? Not making love as most of our world sees it. Making Love. Your hands expressing your heart. Taking care. Each movement gentle, slow, deep....

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