consciousness Tag

SENSUAL BONDAGE MASSAGE WORKSHOP

Our self-pleasuring experiences can become acts of self-love, of healing, of meditation, of creativity, of deep connection to ourselves, of personal enquiry, of exploration of sensation and feeling, of experiencing sexual energy, of a means...

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This Place, Beyond

This experience is available to all of us. It can't really be described as our words limit our understanding. It can but be experienced. ...

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Stay In Your Body

Our body is an intelligence, a consciousness, an awareness. It's in the body and it is the body. To be with it, to experience it, to feel it, we need to learn to stay in...

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Yoni Healing

Yoni Healing is slow, so slow. It's gentle, so gentle. It's allowing, not making, not forcing, not rushing. It's allowing your body to release, to soften. To release the past. ...

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My Connected Male Body

The relationship we have, with our genitals is not conscious, at best it’s functional, and deeper than that it’s contractive, it’s fearful with comparison, with a level of performance, with a lack of information and...

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This Conscious Kiss

For so many of us kissing is a prelude, something we do that leads to something else. And for some people it’s something they have to do to get to the next step. Conscious Kissing is...

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Conscious Receiving

There's an element of touch that I don't think we're always aware of because we focus so much on the giving of touch. Receiving touch. Consciously Receiving your lover's touch. ...

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CONSCIOUS SELF-PLEASURING – A MASTERCLASS

Our self-pleasuring experiences can become acts of self-love, of healing, of meditation, of creativity, of deep connection to ourselves, of personal enquiry, of exploration of sensation and feeling, of experiencing sexual energy, of a means...

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Sensual Bondage Massage

It's a touch experience that takes you deep into your body, into your energy, using a range of sensations. It's a place where sensation and emotion come together. It's an exploration of the possibilities of...

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The Best Time

When we're present, when we're in this moment, when we're connected to ourselves, when we're open, when we're in a space of intimacy, with ourselves, more than anything else, this moment is the best there...

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Sensual Curiosity

Curiosity is one of the most important elements of vitality. It helps keep us interested and interesting. In a relationship it's one of the qualities that contribute to fulfillment. ...

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Slow Union

There’s a practice I teach called Slow Union. Over time this practice reveals almost endless gifts to us as it releases that which prevents us going deep into pleasure and the myriad, mystical, magical gifts we...

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Taoist Sexual Rhythm

One of the deepest practices that I offer and teach is Taoist Sexual Energy Massage. It's a full-body massage that works with the body’s meridian system, bringing healing to the entire being every time you...

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Words on My Lover’s Body

If you wrote a poem on your lover’s body, what would it say? Even your imaginary lover, the lover that you would like to have, the lover you dream about. Where on their body would you write...

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The Shifting Sands of Perception

Last week in my practice there were some amazing realizations that came through shifting perspectives and asking different questions. Asking different questions allows us to see things differently. When we can see things differently we...

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Disneyland and The Holy Grail

So many of us are looking for the Disneyland of sex, love and pleasure. We think that's where it is, the ultimate. It’s like a roller-coaster or ghost-train. It's a thrill. A quick thrill. There...

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Tell Me Something Different!

Most of my work is in the field of Conscious Sexuality and Relationships, which means that that’s what most people come and see me for, and that’s where most journeys start. However, as our sexuality doesn’t...

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Heart-Centered Healing

There's a model of healing I keep coming back to. It's challenging because it challenges the way we look at healing. It's not about fixing the problem. And that's the problem. We’ve been convinced we have to fix...

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Sitting With Love

I sat alone in the night and I asked Love to come and sit with me. I know Love in all its exquisite savagery, in all its terrible beauty. I know the gentleness and tenderness...

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The Questions We Shouldn’t Ask

There are some questions we shouldn't ask. Because the answers make us uncomfortable, they make us squirm inside. Because if we ask them we might have to do something about it. Because if we ask them we...

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The Art of Sensual Massage

The deeper we go into Sensual Massage, the deeper we go into art. The art of touch, the art of communication, the art of intention, the art of presence, the art of awareness, the art of...

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You Think You Have Time

We think we have time. We don't. The people in our lives are there, and then they're not. Some will be for a lifetime, some will be for a day. For so many reasons. ...

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Sexual Healing

There is a way of making love that is deeply healing. It has a breath, a deep, gentle breath. It's in the element of presence. It's in the intention of intimacy, of love. ...

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A Celebration of Men

It was so beautiful to share the space with these men, to see how they allowed themselves to connect with each other, to hold and support each other, literally and metaphorically, to engage with the...

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Sexuality, Life, Healing

Our sexuality is in the context of our lives. It's not, as many people think, and the way they express it, in a little box that they take out in very specific circumstances and use...

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Sexsational! – Cape Town

Sexsational! Thurs 14 Feb, 7pm, Venue to be Confirmed,   R450/person So many workshops are about topics around sex. This is about sex, penetrative sex, and how to take this to the heights you've imagined it to be, and...

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CONSCIOUS SELF-PLEASURING – AN ONLINE WORKSHOP

Our self-pleasuring experiences can become acts of self-love, of healing, of meditation, of creativity, of deep connection to ourselves, of personal enquiry, of exploration of sensation and feeling, of experiencing sexual energy, of a means...

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Yoni So Slowly

There is an expression of Yoni Massage that us slow, so slow at times that there are no movements, no moving, simply holding. .....

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Open Men

''The thing that stands out for me of these experiences is that it is such an amazing safe space full of kindness.'' ...

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The Craziness of Healing

The healing journey is crazy! It's an inner journey, a deep journey that takes you to places within yourself that on time will question everything you know, everything you think, and everything you think you...

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Sacred Yoni

Yoni She is sacred Approach her with reverence Look at her beauty with awe Her folds, her petals Fleshflower of the Goddess ...

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Embrace A Free Free Free Talk

What happens when Jonti and Christos get together? You’ll often find us at one of our favourite coffee places, discussing if we’re going to have a croissant with the coffee or not. We both read extensively...

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Melting Pleasure

Melting Pleasure is going into a deep state of sexual experience. It allows your sexual energy to flow through your entire body, to connect you in a space of intimacy to yourself, to your beloved...

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Sleeping Together

We have a lot of euphemisms for sex. The most popular one is ‘they slept together’. As I understand it, there’s a difference, a big difference between having sex and sleeping. ...

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Love Matters

I was watching a talk on YouTube recently and there was something in the talk that many of us have seen. It was an image of the universe...

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