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Taoist Sexual Rhythm

One of the deepest practices that I offer and teach is Taoist Sexual Energy Massage. It's a full-body massage that works with the body’s meridian system, bringing healing to the entire being every time you...

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Words on My Lover’s Body

If you wrote a poem on your lover’s body, what would it say? Even your imaginary lover, the lover that you would like to have, the lover you dream about. Where on their body would you write...

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The Shifting Sands of Perception

Last week in my practice there were some amazing realizations that came through shifting perspectives and asking different questions. Asking different questions allows us to see things differently. When we can see things differently we...

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Disneyland and The Holy Grail

So many of us are looking for the Disneyland of sex, love and pleasure. We think that's where it is, the ultimate. It’s like a roller-coaster or ghost-train. It's a thrill. A quick thrill. There...

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Tell Me Something Different!

Most of my work is in the field of Conscious Sexuality and Relationships, which means that that’s what most people come and see me for, and that’s where most journeys start. However, as our sexuality doesn’t...

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Heart-Centered Healing

There's a model of healing I keep coming back to. It's challenging because it challenges the way we look at healing. It's not about fixing the problem. And that's the problem. We’ve been convinced we have to fix...

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You Think You Have Time

We think we have time. We don't. The people in our lives are there, and then they're not. Some will be for a lifetime, some will be for a day. For so many reasons. ...

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Sexual Healing

There is a way of making love that is deeply healing. It has a breath, a deep, gentle breath. It's in the element of presence. It's in the intention of intimacy, of love. ...

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Embrace A Free Free Free Talk

What happens when Jonti and Christos get together? You’ll often find us at one of our favourite coffee places, discussing if we’re going to have a croissant with the coffee or not. We both read extensively...

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Men Going Deeper

Last week in my practice I had two incredibly deep experiences. Both of these are connected to a different story of our sexuality...

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Men’s Story

As I look at a different story for our sexuality I turn to an experience I had recently and what it brought to mind...

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Makers of Love

During some deep discuss with me lover we've spoken about not knowing what certain words mean to us anymore. A good example of this is ‘spirituality’...

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Touch

'Often the hands will solve a mystery that the intellect has struggled with in vain'. C G Jung...

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Massage and Touch

On the Sensual Massage retreat last weekend someone asked a fascinating question, ‘What’s the difference between massage and touch?’...

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Stay Connected

I love you, and I'm angry, or hurt, or frustrated or whatever, and I want to stay connected and work this out...

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