The Intention To Love
Everything we do has an intention.
For most of us, in most of life, we’re not conscious of this. We do what we do out of habit, patterning and conditioning.
As we grow and become more conscious, we become aware of the power of intention.
Quiet Lingam, A Man Receiving
Working with the body to change the pattern.
For so many men the masculine expression of sexuality is hard.
The Choice For Pleasure
It’s about biting into this strange offering of our nature and relishing it, savoring it, letting it run down our chins and over our bodies.
You Think You Have Time
We think we have time.
We don’t.
The people in our lives are there, and then they’re not. Some will be for a lifetime, some will be for a day. For so many reasons.
Sexual Healing
There is a way of making love that is deeply healing. It has a breath, a deep, gentle breath. It’s in the element of presence. It’s in the intention of intimacy, of love.
A Celebration of Men
It was so beautiful to share the space with these men, to see how they allowed themselves to connect with each other, to hold and support each other, literally and metaphorically, to engage with the processes with open hearts,
The Many Faces, and Bodies, of Pleasure
We all have a Pleasure Being within us. And to many of us this wondrous aspect of ourselves is a stranger.
Sexuality, Life, Healing
Our sexuality is in the context of our lives.
It’s not, as many people think, and the way they express it, in a little box that they take out in very specific circumstances and use it, then put it away again.
Expectations and Possibilities
How much of what we feel during sex, during touch, during pleasure is what we expect to feel?
And because we expect it to feel that way, that’s what we feel.
Making Love As A Meditation
When we go to the body we’re creating a quietness, a stillness for the mind to begin its inward journey…
Beyond Valentine’s Day
I’m not a fan of Valentine’s Day. And it still has some amazing possibilities…
Patterns and Self-Pleasuring
I’m preparing for the Conscious Self-Pleasuring Webinar on Wednesday, and I’m think about all the things I’d like to share with you, there’s so much…
Yoni So Slowly
There is an expression of Yoni Massage that us slow, so slow at times that there are no movements, no moving, simply holding. ..
The Power of Play
Exploring a different story of our sexuality I come to an understanding of the power of playfulness…
Men Going Deeper
Last week in my practice I had two incredibly deep experiences. Both of these are connected to a different story of our sexuality…
Men’s Story
As I look at a different story for our sexuality I turn to an experience I had recently and what it brought to mind…
Makers of Love
During some deep discuss with me lover we’ve spoken about not knowing what certain words mean to us anymore. A good example of this is ‘spirituality’…
A Different Story
Opening is expansion, Softness is welcoming, Gentleness is tender…
Stress and Sex, A New Possibility
We all know, and are told more and more every day, of the impact of stress…
A World of Healers
Imagine if we lived in a world of healers. The healers who say that I am in the world and the world is within me…
The Pleasure Connection
Over time I’ve worked with so many people, men and women, who have disconnected themselves…
An Erotic Possibility
I’d like to share an erotic possibility with you, with thanks to my lover…
Miracles and Magic
So many people are looking for miracles and magic…
Sexpectations
Have you really thought about what YOU expect from sex?
In Service Of The Heart
If I spent some time every day connecting to my heart…
Natural Connection
Much of healing is about connection…
Quiet Lingam, The Gentle Love
It’s an energy penetration, it’s a heart penetration, it’s gentle, it’s soft, it’s slow…
Making More Love
The sexual paradigm that so much of the Western world lives with is essentially a Porn – based model…
Heart Work
The deeper I go into sexuality, the deeper I go into the heart…
The Healing Of The Deep Erotic Space
The Deep Erotic Space is an experience of energy, sexual energy, vitality, life-force…
Changing Ourselves, Changing Our World
Monsters abound in our world. They always have, they always will…
Touch
‘Often the hands will solve a mystery that the intellect has struggled with in vain’. C G Jung
Lessons in Sacred Sex 2
One night I asked her how many lovers she’d had…
Let The Orgasm Be The Beggining
Let the orgasm be the beginning of lovemaking, not the end…
A Heart Life
I don’t want to do shallow, I don’t want to do mediocre…
Better Sex, Heart Sex
A while ago someone who comes to a lot of my workshops said something that struck a chord within me…
Loving Ourselves
Is it easier to love another than to love ourselves?
The Heart of Release
For so long we thought that our reaction to stress had two expressions, fight or flight, or something along that spectrum…
Be A Human of Emotions
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about positive, about being positive, about negative and positive emotions…
The Paradox of Pleasure
I was struck by an incredible paradox we’ve created that impacts on female sexuality…
Benefits of Sensual and Erotic Massage
The World of Conscious Sensual and Erotic Massage…
In The Silence
In the silence we look…
Sensation is the Doorway to Emotion
Sensation is the doorway to emotion…
Coming Home
I stood in the sun and felt it enter me, felt its warmth…
Just Because You’re having Orgasms
Just because you’re having orgasms, does not mean that you’re sexually fulfilled…
Lessons in Sacred Sex 1
There are many ways of touching a woman, she said softly in the quiet…
Conscious Quiet
Come and let us sit in the quiet, in the conscious quiet…
Massage and Touch
On the Sensual Massage retreat last weekend someone asked a fascinating question, ‘What’s the difference between massage and touch?’
Stay Connected
I love you, and I’m angry, or hurt, or frustrated or whatever, and I want to stay connected and work this out…
Sex and Sensuality as a Practice
It came out of a discussion of the purpose of sex, why we have sex, and the possibilities it has for us…
