The Craziness of Healing
The healing journey is crazy!
It’s an inner journey, a deep journey that takes you to places within yourself that on time will question everything you know, everything you think, and everything you think you know.
Why Should I Go To A Sex Workshop
‘Why should I come to a sex workshop?’
Someone asked me this question yesterday, they’re thinking about coming to some of the workshops I’m teaching in Cape Town…
Sacred Yoni
Yoni
She is sacred
Approach her with reverence
Look at her beauty with awe
Her folds, her petals
Fleshflower of the Goddess
Melting Pleasure
Melting Pleasure is going into a deep state of sexual experience. It allows your sexual energy to flow through your entire body, to connect you in a space of intimacy to yourself, to your beloved…
Sleeping Together
We have a lot of euphemisms for sex. The most popular one is ‘they slept together’. As I understand it, there’s a difference, a big difference between having sex and sleeping.
The Angry Heart
The angry heart cannot love, The angry heart cannot open…
Masturbation as Meditation
Last week I shared a link to a TED Talk, Masturbation is The New Meditation…
Love Matters
I was watching a talk on YouTube recently and there was something in the talk that many of us have seen. It was an image of the universe…
Here is the Place
Here is the place where we come together, you and I…
Heart Arousal
When your arousal is from your heart everything changes…
Living Consciously
It’s f*****g difficult to get up every morning and live consciously…
The Deepening Story Of Men
In looking at a different story for sexuality I come to experiences I’ve shared with many men…
Being Orgasmic
At some point ‘An Orgasm’, having ‘An Orgasm’, achieving ‘An Orgasm’ became The Thing. This was the benchmark by which sexual experiences were measured…
Sexual Exploration
Lately I’ve received a lot of questions from people want to explore different sexual things…
Some Thoughts on Healing
I’d like to share some thoughts on healing with you…
Touch This Body
Touch this body in prayer, Touch this body in worship, For this is sacred ground…
The Power of Play
Exploring a different story of our sexuality I come to an understanding of the power of playfulness…
Men Going Deeper
Last week in my practice I had two incredibly deep experiences. Both of these are connected to a different story of our sexuality…
Men’s Story
As I look at a different story for our sexuality I turn to an experience I had recently and what it brought to mind…
Makers of Love
During some deep discuss with me lover we’ve spoken about not knowing what certain words mean to us anymore. A good example of this is ‘spirituality’…
A Different Story
Opening is expansion, Softness is welcoming, Gentleness is tender…
Stress and Sex, A New Possibility
We all know, and are told more and more every day, of the impact of stress…
A World of Healers
Imagine if we lived in a world of healers. The healers who say that I am in the world and the world is within me…
The Pleasure Connection
Over time I’ve worked with so many people, men and women, who have disconnected themselves…
An Erotic Possibility
I’d like to share an erotic possibility with you, with thanks to my lover…
Miracles and Magic
So many people are looking for miracles and magic…
Sexpectations
Have you really thought about what YOU expect from sex?
In Service Of The Heart
If I spent some time every day connecting to my heart…
Natural Connection
Much of healing is about connection…
Quiet Lingam, The Gentle Love
It’s an energy penetration, it’s a heart penetration, it’s gentle, it’s soft, it’s slow…
Making More Love
The sexual paradigm that so much of the Western world lives with is essentially a Porn – based model…
Heart Work
The deeper I go into sexuality, the deeper I go into the heart…
The Healing Of The Deep Erotic Space
The Deep Erotic Space is an experience of energy, sexual energy, vitality, life-force…
Changing Ourselves, Changing Our World
Monsters abound in our world. They always have, they always will…
Touch
‘Often the hands will solve a mystery that the intellect has struggled with in vain’. C G Jung
Lessons in Sacred Sex 2
One night I asked her how many lovers she’d had…
Let The Orgasm Be The Beggining
Let the orgasm be the beginning of lovemaking, not the end…
A Heart Life
I don’t want to do shallow, I don’t want to do mediocre…
Better Sex, Heart Sex
A while ago someone who comes to a lot of my workshops said something that struck a chord within me…
Loving Ourselves
Is it easier to love another than to love ourselves?
The Heart of Release
For so long we thought that our reaction to stress had two expressions, fight or flight, or something along that spectrum…
Be A Human of Emotions
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about positive, about being positive, about negative and positive emotions…
The Paradox of Pleasure
I was struck by an incredible paradox we’ve created that impacts on female sexuality…
Benefits of Sensual and Erotic Massage
The World of Conscious Sensual and Erotic Massage…
In The Silence
In the silence we look…
Sensation is the Doorway to Emotion
Sensation is the doorway to emotion…
Coming Home
I stood in the sun and felt it enter me, felt its warmth…
Just Because You’re having Orgasms
Just because you’re having orgasms, does not mean that you’re sexually fulfilled…
Lessons in Sacred Sex 1
There are many ways of touching a woman, she said softly in the quiet…
Conscious Quiet
Come and let us sit in the quiet, in the conscious quiet…