The Craziness of Healing

The healing journey is crazy!
It’s an inner journey, a deep journey that takes you to places within yourself that on time will question everything you know, everything you think, and everything you think you know.

Why Should I Go To A Sex Workshop

‘Why should I come to a sex workshop?’

Someone asked me this question yesterday, they’re thinking about coming to some of the workshops I’m teaching in Cape Town…

Sacred Yoni

Yoni
She is sacred
Approach her with reverence
Look at her beauty with awe
Her folds, her petals
Fleshflower of the Goddess

Melting Pleasure

Melting Pleasure is going into a deep state of sexual experience. It allows your sexual energy to flow through your entire body, to connect you in a space of intimacy to yourself, to your beloved…

Sleeping Together

We have a lot of euphemisms for sex. The most popular one is ‘they slept together’. As I understand it, there’s a difference, a big difference between having sex and sleeping.

The Angry Heart

The angry heart cannot love, The angry heart cannot open…

Love Matters

I was watching a talk on YouTube recently and there was something in the talk that many of us have seen. It was an image of the universe…

Heart Arousal

When your arousal is from your heart everything changes…

Living Consciously

It’s f*****g difficult to get up every morning and live consciously…

Being Orgasmic

At some point ‘An Orgasm’, having ‘An Orgasm’, achieving ‘An Orgasm’ became The Thing. This was the benchmark by which sexual experiences were measured…

Sexual Exploration

Lately I’ve received a lot of questions from people want to explore different sexual things…

Touch This Body

Touch this body in prayer, Touch this body in worship, For this is sacred ground…

The Power of Play

Exploring a different story of our sexuality I come to an understanding of the power of playfulness…

Men Going Deeper

Last week in my practice I had two incredibly deep experiences. Both of these are connected to a different story of our sexuality…

Men’s Story

As I look at a different story for our sexuality I turn to an experience I had recently and what it brought to mind…

Makers of Love

During some deep discuss with me lover we’ve spoken about not knowing what certain words mean to us anymore. A good example of this is ‘spirituality’…

A Different Story

Opening is expansion, Softness is welcoming, Gentleness is tender…

A World of Healers

Imagine if we lived in a world of healers. The healers who say that I am in the world and the world is within me…

The Pleasure Connection

Over time I’ve worked with so many people, men and women, who have disconnected themselves…

Sexpectations

Have you really thought about what YOU expect from sex?

Making More Love

The sexual paradigm that so much of the Western world lives with is essentially a Porn – based model…

Heart Work

The deeper I go into sexuality, the deeper I go into the heart…

Touch

‘Often the hands will solve a mystery that the intellect has struggled with in vain’. C G Jung

A Heart Life

I don’t want to do shallow, I don’t want to do mediocre…

Better Sex, Heart Sex

A while ago someone who comes to a lot of my workshops said something that struck a chord within me…

The Heart of Release

For so long we thought that our reaction to stress had two expressions, fight or flight, or something along that spectrum…

Be A Human of Emotions

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about positive, about being positive, about negative and positive emotions…

Coming Home

I stood in the sun and felt it enter me, felt its warmth…

Conscious Quiet

Come and let us sit in the quiet, in the conscious quiet…