Let The Orgasm Be The Beggining
Let the orgasm be the beginning of lovemaking, not the end…
A Heart Life
I don’t want to do shallow, I don’t want to do mediocre…
Better Sex, Heart Sex
A while ago someone who comes to a lot of my workshops said something that struck a chord within me…
Loving Ourselves
Is it easier to love another than to love ourselves?
The Heart of Release
For so long we thought that our reaction to stress had two expressions, fight or flight, or something along that spectrum…
Be A Human of Emotions
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about positive, about being positive, about negative and positive emotions…
The Paradox of Pleasure
I was struck by an incredible paradox we’ve created that impacts on female sexuality…
Benefits of Sensual and Erotic Massage
The World of Conscious Sensual and Erotic Massage…
In The Silence
In the silence we look…
Sensation is the Doorway to Emotion
Sensation is the doorway to emotion…
Coming Home
I stood in the sun and felt it enter me, felt its warmth…
Just Because You’re having Orgasms
Just because you’re having orgasms, does not mean that you’re sexually fulfilled…
Lessons in Sacred Sex 1
There are many ways of touching a woman, she said softly in the quiet…
Conscious Quiet
Come and let us sit in the quiet, in the conscious quiet…
Massage and Touch
On the Sensual Massage retreat last weekend someone asked a fascinating question, ‘What’s the difference between massage and touch?’
Stay Connected
I love you, and I’m angry, or hurt, or frustrated or whatever, and I want to stay connected and work this out…
Sex and Sensuality as a Practice
It came out of a discussion of the purpose of sex, why we have sex, and the possibilities it has for us…
The Unspoken Conversation
I went to a Constellation workshop last week. I understand the work to be about family patterns that we carry…
The Pleasure Communication
Touching, kissing, caressing, sensual experience, sex are all a communication…
The Heart Revolution
Generally we live with a Porn Model of sex…
The Gifts of Loving
She asked me what I get from loving her…
Why a Sex Coach?
This is the age of the Coach…
Healing by Adding
Many of us struggle to change things that cause us pain, that limit us…
Eargasms and Expectations
Let’s begin with an Eargasm…
Our Sexual Story
I hear people’s stories, our stories. Our sexual stories…
G-Spot, oh G-Spot
G-Spot, oh G-Spot, wherefore art thou?
Whose Orgasm Is It Anyway?
Who are you having orgasms for…
For Myself
I cannot live my life for you…
Openness
How would it be if you spoke openly about sex…
Deep Into My Body
On the inward journey we go deeper into ourselves…
A Sensual and Erotic Life
At my workshop last week, Awakening the Erotic Spirit, there was a beautiful discussion about the word ‘Erotic’…
How To Be a Better Lover
Do you want to be a better lover?
The Power of Touch
Have you been touched with love, where you can feel your lover’s heart in their hands…
The Heart of The Healer
The past months have taken me deeper into myself than ever…
Sexual Healing, Life Healing
When we begin a journey of sexual healing we begin a journey of life healing, body healing, heart healing, spirit healing…
Softly, Slowly, Deeply…
The world of male sexuality is fraught with myth, misinformation and misunderstanding…
Heart-Centered Sexuality
For a while I’ve been moving more into a heart space in my work and life…
Beautiful Massage
It’s long been my desire to create the most beautiful massage, touch experiences and workshops…
The Practice of Relationship
So many relationships end because of a lack of intimacy…
The Sexual Fire
There’s an analogy that I use which I call the Sexual Fire…
Let The Point of Contact be The Point of Consciousness
Contact. We touch…
Healing With Pleasure
We generally seek, look for and go for healing when we’re in pain…
Sexual Communication
Sexual and Sensual Communication is very difficult for many people…
Holding Space
Who will hold space for your fire…
I See You
There is an important element in relationships, in love, of being seen…
This Man…
I sat in the radio studio last week talking to a man who has come out as bisexual…
The Way You Make Me Feel
There are many fascinating things to learn in touching…
The Touch Connection
Many couples come to see me in my practice complaining that they’re not having enough sex…
A Question of Experience
As a healer and facilitator I’m always looking to grow and expand…
Loving Men
I had a moment recently of intense sadness that brought me to tears…
