Sexpectations
Have you really thought about what YOU expect from sex?
In Service Of The Heart
If I spent some time every day connecting to my heart…
Natural Connection
Much of healing is about connection…
Quiet Lingam, The Gentle Love
It’s an energy penetration, it’s a heart penetration, it’s gentle, it’s soft, it’s slow…
Making More Love
The sexual paradigm that so much of the Western world lives with is essentially a Porn – based model…
Heart Work
The deeper I go into sexuality, the deeper I go into the heart…
The Healing Of The Deep Erotic Space
The Deep Erotic Space is an experience of energy, sexual energy, vitality, life-force…
Changing Ourselves, Changing Our World
Monsters abound in our world. They always have, they always will…
Touch
‘Often the hands will solve a mystery that the intellect has struggled with in vain’. C G Jung
Lessons in Sacred Sex 2
One night I asked her how many lovers she’d had…
Let The Orgasm Be The Beggining
Let the orgasm be the beginning of lovemaking, not the end…
A Heart Life
I don’t want to do shallow, I don’t want to do mediocre…
Better Sex, Heart Sex
A while ago someone who comes to a lot of my workshops said something that struck a chord within me…
Loving Ourselves
Is it easier to love another than to love ourselves?
The Heart of Release
For so long we thought that our reaction to stress had two expressions, fight or flight, or something along that spectrum…
Be A Human of Emotions
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about positive, about being positive, about negative and positive emotions…
The Paradox of Pleasure
I was struck by an incredible paradox we’ve created that impacts on female sexuality…
Benefits of Sensual and Erotic Massage
The World of Conscious Sensual and Erotic Massage…
In The Silence
In the silence we look…
Sensation is the Doorway to Emotion
Sensation is the doorway to emotion…
Coming Home
I stood in the sun and felt it enter me, felt its warmth…
Just Because You’re having Orgasms
Just because you’re having orgasms, does not mean that you’re sexually fulfilled…
Lessons in Sacred Sex 1
There are many ways of touching a woman, she said softly in the quiet…
Conscious Quiet
Come and let us sit in the quiet, in the conscious quiet…
Massage and Touch
On the Sensual Massage retreat last weekend someone asked a fascinating question, ‘What’s the difference between massage and touch?’
Stay Connected
I love you, and I’m angry, or hurt, or frustrated or whatever, and I want to stay connected and work this out…
Sex and Sensuality as a Practice
It came out of a discussion of the purpose of sex, why we have sex, and the possibilities it has for us…
The Unspoken Conversation
I went to a Constellation workshop last week. I understand the work to be about family patterns that we carry…
The Pleasure Communication
Touching, kissing, caressing, sensual experience, sex are all a communication…
The Heart Revolution
Generally we live with a Porn Model of sex…
The Gifts of Loving
She asked me what I get from loving her…
Why a Sex Coach?
This is the age of the Coach…
Healing by Adding
Many of us struggle to change things that cause us pain, that limit us…
Eargasms and Expectations
Let’s begin with an Eargasm…
Our Sexual Story
I hear people’s stories, our stories. Our sexual stories…
G-Spot, oh G-Spot
G-Spot, oh G-Spot, wherefore art thou?
Whose Orgasm Is It Anyway?
Who are you having orgasms for…
For Myself
I cannot live my life for you…
Openness
How would it be if you spoke openly about sex…
Deep Into My Body
On the inward journey we go deeper into ourselves…
A Sensual and Erotic Life
At my workshop last week, Awakening the Erotic Spirit, there was a beautiful discussion about the word ‘Erotic’…
How To Be a Better Lover
Do you want to be a better lover?
The Power of Touch
Have you been touched with love, where you can feel your lover’s heart in their hands…
The Heart of The Healer
The past months have taken me deeper into myself than ever…
Sexual Healing, Life Healing
When we begin a journey of sexual healing we begin a journey of life healing, body healing, heart healing, spirit healing…
Softly, Slowly, Deeply…
The world of male sexuality is fraught with myth, misinformation and misunderstanding…
Heart-Centered Sexuality
For a while I’ve been moving more into a heart space in my work and life…
Beautiful Massage
It’s long been my desire to create the most beautiful massage, touch experiences and workshops…
The Practice of Relationship
So many relationships end because of a lack of intimacy…
The Sexual Fire
There’s an analogy that I use which I call the Sexual Fire…
