Let The Point of Contact be The Point of Consciousness
Contact. We touch…
Healing With Pleasure
We generally seek, look for and go for healing when we’re in pain…
Sexual Communication
Sexual and Sensual Communication is very difficult for many people…
Holding Space
Who will hold space for your fire…
I See You
There is an important element in relationships, in love, of being seen…
This Man…
I sat in the radio studio last week talking to a man who has come out as bisexual…
The Way You Make Me Feel
There are many fascinating things to learn in touching…
The Touch Connection
Many couples come to see me in my practice complaining that they’re not having enough sex…
A Question of Experience
As a healer and facilitator I’m always looking to grow and expand…
Loving Men
I had a moment recently of intense sadness that brought me to tears…
A Beautiful Stranger
On your journey to sexual authenticity you will meet a stranger, beautiful, at times terrifying, exhilarating…
Low Libido?
Over the past year I’ve worked more than ever with women who have been diagnosed as having low libido…
Sacred Sex
We have taken what is sacred and made it dirty…
A Night of Presence
Imagine a night of presence…
Connection
Connection. That’s what so many of us are looking for…
Pleasure Choices
Have you ever had a sexual experience that was an absolute choice…
Collapse Your Expectations
There is an incredible transformational power in sexuality…
Make Your Lover Important
Make your lover important…
The Beautiful Paradox of Being Human
There is an incredible and beautiful paradox of being human, of this life’s journey and all it brings us…
The Shimmer of Pleasure
I first saw this years ago, purely as something physical…
Exploring Your Sexuality
To explore your sexuality you have to explore energy…
The Mystical Power of Slow Touch
There is a mystical secret that masters of touch know…
The Yoni Ocean of Pleasure
The Yoni Ocean is a place of endless pleasure…
Release into Pleasure
The more open and relaxed your body is, the greater pleasure you’ll experience…
Places of Intimacy
I seek the places of intimacy…
Those F***-It Days
You know those days, they don’t happen very often, when you say Fuck It!
Angry Lingam, Angry Yoni
There is so much anger in our world…
Enter Through the Heart
Everything changes when the heart becomes the entry point to pleasure…
The Tears of Orgasm
I’d like to share three stories with you…
The Orgasmic Field
One of the reasons we seek orgasms is that just for a moment, brief as it may be, it totally takes us out of ourselves…
The Many Petals of Yoni Massage
There are many expressions of Yoni Massage, many petals of this most beautiful art of pleasure…
Taking Care
Every Water Flow Massage Experience has a theme, an energy…
Holiday Pleasure and Pressure
So many of us are looking for more pleasure, deeper connection and intimacy as well as a greater experience of sexual energy…
Slowly, Deeply…
So many of us are looking for more pleasure, deeper connection and intimacy as well as a greater experience of sexual energy…
What Do You Want From Sex
My learning of life, of consciousness, has brought me to see that everything is connected, and that everything has a purpose…
Orgasmic Gratitude
My learning of life, of consciousness, has brought me to see that everything is connected, and that everything has a purpose…
Honouring Love
My learning of life, of consciousness, has brought me to see that everything is connected, and that everything has a purpose…
Permission to Love
I sat in my practice recently with a woman who had never had an orgasm…
Don’t Teach Me To F***, Teach Me To Feel
I recently had an experience, probably the most intense pleasure experience I’ve ever had…
Time For Pleasure
I had some interesting realisations the other day during a particularly beautiful massage about time…
The Heart of my Lingam
He hungers, my Lingam. He hungers for you…
Relentless Growth
When you choose Consciousness, when you choose Growth, really choose it, commit to its path, it becomes relentless…
Emotional Expansion
For a long time I struggled with the concept of negative and positive emotions…
Meaningful Sex
Over the years of working in the field of Conscious Sexuality I’ve heard many people say that they want sex to be meaningful…
My Tantric Quest
With Jonti I’ve learnt so many small, subtle ways of being with myself and getting comfortable with my sexuality…
Make a Life of Love
Our great disservice to love is that we’ve euphemistically limited the making of love to sex…
Making The After-Love Last
There’s so much said about foreplay, about the build-up to sex…
Thoughts on Healing
Over the past week I’ve sat in my studio and listened to stories of deep pain…
Sensual Connection & Healing – 18. The Gifts Of Love & Being Present
In this video Jonti talks about the gift of love and the gift of being present
Sensual Connection & Healing – 17. The Spiritual Being
In this video Jonti talks about connecting to your spiritual being
