sensuality Tag

Sensual Bondage Massage

It's a touch experience that takes you deep into your body, into your energy, using a range of sensations. It's a place where sensation and emotion come together. It's an exploration of the possibilities of...

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The Best Time

When we're present, when we're in this moment, when we're connected to ourselves, when we're open, when we're in a space of intimacy, with ourselves, more than anything else, this moment is the best there...

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Sensual Curiosity

Curiosity is one of the most important elements of vitality. It helps keep us interested and interesting. In a relationship it's one of the qualities that contribute to fulfillment. ...

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Slow Union

There’s a practice I teach called Slow Union. Over time this practice reveals almost endless gifts to us as it releases that which prevents us going deep into pleasure and the myriad, mystical, magical gifts we...

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The Endless Touch

One of the most beautiful things about learning Sensual Massage, Heart Massage, Healing Massage, is the endless journey of discovery it offers. ...

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In The Giving

It's often been said that the receiving is in the giving. This is showing to be so true in the learning of Healing Massage. I was thinking about my journey, working in the field of...

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Healing Men

It's easy for me to talk about the fears that many men have around their sexuality, about the sexual problems they have, the impact these have on their emotional state, their relationships and lives. I...

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Water Flow Massage

'The thing that stands out for me of these experiences is that it is such an amazing safe space full of kindness.' ...

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Taoist Sexual Rhythm

One of the deepest practices that I offer and teach is Taoist Sexual Energy Massage. It's a full-body massage that works with the body’s meridian system, bringing healing to the entire being every time you...

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Words on My Lover’s Body

If you wrote a poem on your lover’s body, what would it say? Even your imaginary lover, the lover that you would like to have, the lover you dream about. Where on their body would you write...

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The Shifting Sands of Perception

Last week in my practice there were some amazing realizations that came through shifting perspectives and asking different questions. Asking different questions allows us to see things differently. When we can see things differently we...

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Disneyland and The Holy Grail

So many of us are looking for the Disneyland of sex, love and pleasure. We think that's where it is, the ultimate. It’s like a roller-coaster or ghost-train. It's a thrill. A quick thrill. There...

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Tell Me Something Different!

Most of my work is in the field of Conscious Sexuality and Relationships, which means that that’s what most people come and see me for, and that’s where most journeys start. However, as our sexuality doesn’t...

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Heart-Centered Healing

There's a model of healing I keep coming back to. It's challenging because it challenges the way we look at healing. It's not about fixing the problem. And that's the problem. We’ve been convinced we have to fix...

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Sitting With Love

I sat alone in the night and I asked Love to come and sit with me. I know Love in all its exquisite savagery, in all its terrible beauty. I know the gentleness and tenderness...

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The Questions We Shouldn’t Ask

There are some questions we shouldn't ask. Because the answers make us uncomfortable, they make us squirm inside. Because if we ask them we might have to do something about it. Because if we ask them we...

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The Art of Sensual Massage

The deeper we go into Sensual Massage, the deeper we go into art. The art of touch, the art of communication, the art of intention, the art of presence, the art of awareness, the art of...

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Water Flow Massage

'The thing that stands out for me of these experiences is that it is such an amazing safe space full of kindness.' ...

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Water Flow Massage

'The thing that stands out for me of these experiences is that it is such an amazing safe space full of kindness.' ...

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Men Going Deeper

Last week in my practice I had two incredibly deep experiences. Both of these are connected to a different story of our sexuality...

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Men’s Story

As I look at a different story for our sexuality I turn to an experience I had recently and what it brought to mind...

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Makers of Love

During some deep discuss with me lover we've spoken about not knowing what certain words mean to us anymore. A good example of this is ‘spirituality’...

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