Collapse Your Expectations

There is an incredible transformational power in sexuality…
Make Your Lover Important

Make your lover important…
The Beautiful Paradox of Being Human

There is an incredible and beautiful paradox of being human, of this life’s journey and all it brings us…
The Shimmer of Pleasure

I first saw this years ago, purely as something physical…
Exploring Your Sexuality

To explore your sexuality you have to explore energy…
The Mystical Power of Slow Touch

There is a mystical secret that masters of touch know…
The Yoni Ocean of Pleasure

The Yoni Ocean is a place of endless pleasure…
Release into Pleasure

The more open and relaxed your body is, the greater pleasure you’ll experience…
The Sexual Energy of Contemplation

Our sexual energy can be used in so many ways…
Places of Intimacy

I seek the places of intimacy…
Those F***-It Days

You know those days, they don’t happen very often, when you say Fuck It!
Angry Lingam, Angry Yoni

There is so much anger in our world…
Enter Through the Heart

Everything changes when the heart becomes the entry point to pleasure…
The Tears of Orgasm

I’d like to share three stories with you…
The Orgasmic Field

One of the reasons we seek orgasms is that just for a moment, brief as it may be, it totally takes us out of ourselves…
The Many Petals of Yoni Massage

There are many expressions of Yoni Massage, many petals of this most beautiful art of pleasure…
Taking Care

Every Water Flow Massage Experience has a theme, an energy…
Holiday Pleasure and Pressure

So many of us are looking for more pleasure, deeper connection and intimacy as well as a greater experience of sexual energy…
Slowly, Deeply…

So many of us are looking for more pleasure, deeper connection and intimacy as well as a greater experience of sexual energy…
What Do You Want From Sex

My learning of life, of consciousness, has brought me to see that everything is connected, and that everything has a purpose…
Orgasmic Gratitude

My learning of life, of consciousness, has brought me to see that everything is connected, and that everything has a purpose…
Honouring Love

My learning of life, of consciousness, has brought me to see that everything is connected, and that everything has a purpose…
Permission to Love

I sat in my practice recently with a woman who had never had an orgasm…
Don’t Teach Me To F***, Teach Me To Feel

I recently had an experience, probably the most intense pleasure experience I’ve ever had…
Time For Pleasure

I had some interesting realisations the other day during a particularly beautiful massage about time…
The Heart of my Lingam

He hungers, my Lingam. He hungers for you…
Relentless Growth

When you choose Consciousness, when you choose Growth, really choose it, commit to its path, it becomes relentless…
Emotional Expansion

For a long time I struggled with the concept of negative and positive emotions…
Meaningful Sex

Over the years of working in the field of Conscious Sexuality I’ve heard many people say that they want sex to be meaningful…
My Tantric Quest

With Jonti I’ve learnt so many small, subtle ways of being with myself and getting comfortable with my sexuality…
Make a Life of Love

Our great disservice to love is that we’ve euphemistically limited the making of love to sex…
Making The After-Love Last

There’s so much said about foreplay, about the build-up to sex…
Thoughts on Healing

Over the past week I’ve sat in my studio and listened to stories of deep pain…
Sensual Connection & Healing – 18. The Gifts Of Love & Being Present

In this video Jonti talks about the gift of love and the gift of being present
Sensual Connection & Healing – 17. The Spiritual Being

In this video Jonti talks about connecting to your spiritual being
Prepare Yourself for Pleasure

Prepare yourself for pleasure…
Sensual Connection & Healing – 16. Light The Fire

In this video Jonti Talks about the techniques used to light the sensual fire.
Sensual Connection & Healing – 15. Being Selfish

In this video Jonti explains the importance and value of being selfish.
Heart Time

Heart Time is where your relationship happens…
Sensual Connection & Healing – 14. Chakra Alignment

In this video Jonti explains the technique used aligning the bodies Chakras or energy zones.
Sensual Connection & Healing – 13. The Sensual Vocabulary

In this video Jonti talks about the sensual vocabulary and how the words we choose to use affect our senses.
Sensual Connection & Healing – 12. Body Check-In

In this video Jonti guides us through the body check-in.
Sensual Connection & Healing – 11. Chest Breath

In this video Jonti guides us through the third exercise in the workshop which is the chest breath.
The Power of Pleasure

My lover is a woman of incredible sexual energy and power…
Sensual Connection & Healing – 10. Sensual Hands Dancing

In this video Jonti guides us through the second exercise in the workshop which is Sensual Hands Dancing.
The Missing Element of Love

Imagine if we’ve got something wrong about love…
Sensual Connection & Healing – 9. Frequency Of Emotions

In this video Jonti talks about thow every emotion has a unique frequency which you can learn to identify and manage appropriately.
Sensual Connection & Healing – 8. Patterns

In this video Jonti talks about the patterns and conditional, how they affect our lives and relationships and how to change them.
Sensual Connection & Healing – 7. Sensation Is The Doorway To Emotion

In this video Jonti talks about the relationship between sensation and emotion and how sensation is often gateway to connect with inner emotions.
Sensual Connection & Healing – 6. Heart Breath

In this video Jonti talks about the first exercise for connection – The Heart Breath.